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Q: I Want to Get Pregnant Please Help Me.
asked by: GaBulldogsnum1fan on April 23rd, 2007
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My boyfriend and I have been trying to conceive a baby for about 8 months now. We have tried so many times in a month that I can not even count but it seems that no matter how hard we try or what we do I still have a period. We really want to have a baby. Please help us.
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mc4ever02
replied on April 23rd, 2007
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Welcome to ehealth!

Are your cycles regular? Do you chart temperatures or use any opk's?

How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
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GaBulldogsnum1fan
replied on April 24th, 2007
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My cycles are not always regular but I have used ovulation testers before. I have had sex when it said that it was the right time on the tester but I still had a period. I am 19.
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mc4ever02
replied on April 24th, 2007
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You are probably going to hear this alot, but I'm going to say it agian, anyways. It takes a healthy couple up to 12 months to conceive. So while 8 months seems like a long time, you really shouldn't worry yet.

Do you use the ovulation predictors regularly? For how long?

How often are you and your bf having sex?
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GaBulldogsnum1fan
replied on April 24th, 2007
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Well we usually try to try every day but sometimes that doesnt happen. We used the prediction testers about every other week. What is there that we can do that could speed up the process and that may help us?
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mc4ever02
replied on April 24th, 2007
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You should be having sex every other day. It takes 48-72 hrs for sperm to mature. If there is a bunch of immature sperms swimming around it will take much longer. One of our ladies on here recently went to the doctor. She was told to bd on day 1,3,5 and 7, going off of a opk.

Have you started taking prenatal vitamins yet?
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GaBulldogsnum1fan
replied on April 25th, 2007
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No I have not been taking prenatal vitamins. Where should I get them at and what brand is the best? Will those help me get pregnant faster?? And is there anything that my boyfriend can do to help?
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mc4ever02
replied on April 25th, 2007
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Prenatal vitamins will not technically help you get pregnant. But they are always a good idea. You should ideally, start taking them 3 months before you conceive, or start ttc. Your doctor can write you a prescription or you can go to any major store and buy them. (walmart, target, cvs, and grocery stores for example). Prenatal vitamins aid your body in promoting a healthy environment for an embryo to implant and develop. It also aids in development which is important.
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GaBulldogsnum1fan
replied on April 25th, 2007
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Are there any natural pills or vitamins that I can take to make concception faster or easier?? And could there be something wrong with me that could be the reason I have not gotten pregnant?? My mom had her tubes blocked I think before she had me and it took her eight years to conceive. I dont want that to happen to me and she said that it is not genetically passed on which I hope is true.
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sally11
replied on August 19th, 2007
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Im Trying Aswell 8months Now And Nothin
hello i cant stress enough in how much i feel the same way as you do, ive been trying to have a baby since january and its been 8 months now. and im also 20years of age you would think the younger the better chnaces well i was wrong. i thought i would get prego straight away but nope and its so fustrating wen you get your prediods i get so disappointed. i feel like now everytime i have sex with my partner its like a mission to try get pregnant and we have sex all the time aswell ery 2 3days and wen im ovulationg everyday but still nothing soemtimes i force him to have sex with me just so what if todays the day i mite get pregannt. i also went to the doc had test to see if im fertile etc but she said im eprfect normal you just have to give it time it takes a year, but that doesnt help soemtimes im worried what if its my partner the problem low sperm or sumthing... and another thing my sister had a one nite stand with a guy and accidently got prego staright away and me and my husband takes this long . well i gues sum ppl r luckyer then others.
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sally11
replied on August 19th, 2007
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just another question as i just saw the dates while ago have you gottten pregantn yet??? great to now
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Manda11907
replied on September 12th, 2007
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and i to am 20 years old and me and my b.f are ttc now for 5 months...and i feel the very same wasy as all of u do because it seems like everytime i get excited that this is gunna be the time but then i get my period and its very depressing and i get nervous that somthings rong with me or my b.f but i also no it takes a while to get pregnant...and it sucks becuz we r really ready to have a baby and it just dont seem like it wants to happenn..
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libbylobster
replied on January 17th, 2009
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Same situation
Hello, im 23 and me and my boyfriend have also been trying for about 6 months now. He does have other children from a previous relationship so we know he is fertile. i had to have fertility tests a while ago and i know i am fertile, but no matter what we do we still cant concieve. i know it takes time for a healthy couple to conceive but why is it that so many pregnancies happen on one night stands. i feel lost and as though something is missing from my life. Does everyone else feel that way?
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cute19
replied on March 22nd, 2009
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getting pregnant
what vitamins should i take to get pregnant easily?is fertility pills healthy?
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Emihonui
replied on May 18th, 2009
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hi, ive been trying to get pregnant 4 a lng tym i guess???but the thing s my partner and i are ready to have a chid but i keep geting my period and i get so pissed off...is there sumfing wrong wif me??
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Emihonui
replied on May 18th, 2009
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Please reply to this one pls...I have been ready to get pregnant since 2007 and i think it is taking me a long tym to get pregnant...and im scared i might not be able to have kids...is it me or my BF..Is there any suggestions on the problem for me or my BF... I feel really sad about it and i look forward to your reply...is there other ways to get pregnant or do we have to keep trying???
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mud4x4girl4eva
replied on May 19th, 2009
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Will it every happen....
Hi all, Im in the same boat as you all seem to be. I have been unprotected for over 5.5years now n ive never falling pregnant. Im 25 in Jan 09 i had a laposcopic opp which they found nothing wrong inside me (no cyst,block tubes,scar tissue nothing) N i thought yay they have blownin my tubes out so i should fell pregnant easier now but nope still no luck. Ive got a appointment on 10 June 09 to go back to my specialist to see what to do next. Ive tried taking fertily pills but still no luck. My partners sperm has been tested and that is fine.I always chart my days/periods. Oh golly what else can you do to get PREGNANT... I even lost weight because i was 85kgs n thought that may have been a problem so lost weight n now im 68kgs but nope that cant of been the prob...I dont know what else to do, does anyone out there have any ticks up there sleve?
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babyshy
replied on July 7th, 2009
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Still trying again...
with my first child, my ex and I have tried for nearly 2 years and finally gave up and our relationship wasnt going anywhere and thats when I concieved and gave birth to my first child. BUT now I have gone through 2 other relationships and wanted to have a baby but no luck.. one relationship we have tried 3 years and now I have been with my current fiance whom we have been trying a year and no luck.
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CourtneySmotherman
replied on July 8th, 2009
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Im the same way. My husband and I have been trying for about 4 months. I quit taking my birth control 5 months ago to begin trying and he has 2 other children so we know he is fertile. What can I do to help?? I tried take vitamins with the folic acid in them i thought that would help. Tried laying in bed after intercourse, everything but still no luck!!
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