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Q: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex?
asked by: beltdriven1200 on April 21st, 2007
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When my husband and I are having oral or vaginal sex I get the sensation that I want to pee and I hold back. Am I actually urinating or is there something wrong? On the occasions when I have actually let go or lost all control I experience a good orgasm. My husband says that I am a gusher is he right or am I peeing? Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes
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reneblack
replied on April 21st, 2007
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex?
beltdriven1200 wrote:
When my husband and I are having oral or vaginal sex I get the sensation that I want to pee and I hold back. Am I actually urinating or is there something wrong? On the occasions when I have actually let go or lost all control I experience a good orgasm. My husband says that I am a gusher is he right or am I peeing? Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes

wow! Shocked I wish I could cum like that? Laughing
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Tylanas
replied on April 21st, 2007
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex?
beltdriven1200 wrote:
When my husband and I are having oral or vaginal sex I get the sensation that I want to pee and I hold back. Am I actually urinating or is there something wrong? On the occasions when I have actually let go or lost all control I experience a good orgasm. My husband says that I am a gusher is he right or am I peeing? Rolling Eyes Rolling Eyes


Your husband is right; you are not peeing!!

This is called female ejaculation. It is totally normal! It is not urine; it is actually a liquid that comes from an organ called the urethral sponge. You cannot urinate while orgasming becuase the muscles near your bladder close it off.
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NWKC
replied on April 22nd, 2007
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your husband is correct. you're a "squirter".

Eiri wrote:
You cannot urinate while orgasming becuase the muscles near your bladder close it off.


I do believe that works in similar ways for males. once a male boy has hit puberty he is no longer subject to peeing his bed; if that was the case unless he was one of the fortunate to learn self control. males become erect at night, not due to subjecting a wetdream, but this happens everynight. anyway, I assume this correctly because I've experimented a bit, by masturbating while having a slight urge to urinate and the urge simply goes away do to the lack of nerve towards the bladder that is focused on the penis. Very Happy
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fiona05
replied on April 22nd, 2007
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex?
Eiri wrote:
You cannot urinate while orgasming becuase the muscles near your bladder close it off.


are you sure? i know that's the case with men, but i've been told that with women it's different. maybe i'm wrong. got any sources? don't really wanna find out for myself, don't really wanna wet the bed whilst having sex, lol.
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Becky
replied on April 22nd, 2007
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i am gusher too and get the sensation of wanting to pee just before i orgasm.
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Tylanas
replied on April 22nd, 2007
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Re: Urinating During Orgasm, Or During Oral Sex?
fiona05 wrote:
Eiri wrote:
You cannot urinate while orgasming becuase the muscles near your bladder close it off.


are you sure? i know that's the case with men, but i've been told that with women it's different. maybe i'm wrong. got any sources? don't really wanna find out for myself, don't really wanna wet the bed whilst having sex, lol.

I have sources online I can go look for if you like.
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angrymess
replied on May 24th, 2007
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Are You Sure? I Think I Did.
Honestly? Because I could have sworn that I did the other day and I seriously almost cried I was so embarrassed. It really felt like it, and it never has. I mean it's not like he knew because I hurried and covered it and I didn't know if it had something to do with my pregnancy. I just hadn't heard about it. write me back.
-me
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Granps
replied on May 30th, 2007
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Women Urinating While Having Intercourse
Females ejaculate? Yes, they do. We’re talking about a gusher of fluid spurting out of her vagina as she comes. Actually, to be more accurate, the fluid comes squirting out of her urethra. Don’t let this gross you out, though; it’s not pee! Female cum is a clear, odorless liquid produced by a small organ called the “female prostate,” or urethral sponge, which is located between the urethra and vagina. The fluid it produces just happens to come out of the pee hole, but...so does guys’ semen, right?
While some women may experience ejaculation naturally in the course of intercourse or other sex play, most require some concentrated stimulation of the G-spot. Massaging the G-spot causes the urethral sponge to become engorged with fluid, which is then expelled during orgasm. And, as with an orgasm, ejaculation also requires the woman to “let go.” Before ejaculating, the woman will feel as though she is going to pee. However, it is nearly impossible for her to urinate while coming, because the muscular contractions of orgasm close off the bladder and prevent the passage of urine.
As she gets closer to coming, she will start to feel as though she has to urinate. That’s the cum beginning to flow into her urethra. In order for her ejaculate, she has to relax, let go, and push down and out with the same muscles she would use as if she were peeing. It may be hard to overcome the impulse to hold back, but you can reassure her, again, that if she is coming, she will not pee.

Instead, as she comes and pushes the fluid out, she should feel extra intense orgasmic pleasure, and you should be rewarded with a spurt of nectar that may range from gentle gush to a drenching spray.
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jennycome
replied on September 15th, 2008
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im a bit worried,

me and my bf have been togther nearly 2 years and have wonderful experimental sex.
we both no what turns each other on, and he knows exaclty where to turn me on and how.


for a long time he was able to make me cum (ejaculate)
anthough recently i have noticed, and he has also, that even doing the same things as before, by turning me on, instead of ejaculationg i am passing urine instead.

i can feel the build up, and feel as if im orgasming, but yet i pass urine instead of ejaculate at the end of it.

why is this?

me and my bf have been ancious to no as it is causing problems in our sex life, and i feel humiluated as its altough he cant please me in the same ways anymore.

the other day he was giving me vaginal oral (teasing my clit)
and i felt like i was going to cum, i felt altho i was orgasming, and i had been holding it in for so long, i decided to let go...
and unfortnatley pee'd on his face. (revalting i no)

i new staight away from the colour that things were no right, and this has nt been the first time!!
and i pass urine before and after sex.

i have jus had tests a few months ago because ive had continous urine infections, and it has cleared up.

is it that my bladder cannot control itself?
or cannot hold the urine?
is he teasing me in the wrong place?


please help,
x
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littlemissliz
replied on September 15th, 2008
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have you been to your doctor. i know it can be a little embarresing but if its having an effect on your relationship and confidence then prehaps your doc can advice you on what to do. good luck.
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