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Q: Pain And Bleeding After First Time Sex

asked by: Recky on April 20th, 2007

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I am an uncircumsized male and I just recently had sex yesterday first time, so i did everything right with the condom and stuff, ok we finished and everything I rolled my skin back to place, now today I try to roll it back and it hurts i see like blood scratches and stuff, any help? dnt know whats wrong, and i never jacked off or nothin , but i always clean myself though, but whats the problem?

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Tylanas

replied on April 20th, 2007

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Well if you've never masturbated then your penis is probably extremely sensitive and unused to the contct caused by sex. Im not surprised it's tender and bleeding.

Recky

replied on April 20th, 2007

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am I alrite then cuz I aint bust or nothin when we was havin sex, generally cuz she had to go to work, so am I alrite and I just need to chill out till it gets better?

Tylanas

replied on April 20th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Re: So

Recky wrote:

am I alrite then cuz I aint bust or nothin when we was havin sex, generally cuz she had to go to work, so am I alrite and I just need to chill out till it gets better?

You're not... bust? Do you mean you haven't ejaculated? Ejaculating has nothing to do with causing damage to the penis.

I think you are fine, but you need to wait for it to fully heal. Be gentle, keep it clean with water and pat it dry. I would suggest no sexual activity until it is healed completely.

haccord

replied on April 20th, 2007

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i just have a questions. hold old are you? if you are at least 16, a male, and have a penis. I do not beleive you have never masterbaited. all males do it at one time or another. and if you had sex for the first time them i am pretty sure you came unless it only lasted for 30 seconds or something like that. as far as you forskin not rolling back i cant help you.

Llewellyn

replied on April 20th, 2007

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haccord wrote:

Some people honestly don't masturbate. Some people think it is immoral. Others believe the old myths that parents or grandparents might have told them about going blind, using up all their sperm, or growing hair on their palms. I have met people who believed things like that and were honestly afraid to masturbate, so it is possible. Other people just don't have much of a sex drive, and the thought never really crossed their mind.

Also, many people are nervous their first time. Sometimes they are so nervous that they just can't ejaculate no matter how long it goes on for.

You might be right, maybe he has masturbated, and maybe he did ejaculate during sex. I am just saying that it's certainly not a guarantee. Everyone's different.

haccord

replied on April 20th, 2007

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i havent figured out how to quote yet but this is for the person above me
this is their quote below
Some people honestly don't masturbate. Some people think it is immoral

please dont take this in the wrong manner: but lets say he found masturbating immoral, then why is he having pre-marital sex. like i said it is just a question i mean no offense by it

Tylanas

replied on April 20th, 2007

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If you look at the bottom of this post I just made, there is a word that says "Quote". CLick on that and you can quote my post. Every post has that word. You click it on any post you want to quote.

Llewellyn

replied on April 20th, 2007

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haccord wrote:

I am not saying that he thinks masturbation is immoral. You just made it sound like every single man over the age of 16 masturbates. I was just pointing out that that isn't necessarily true and giving some examples of why people might not masturbate. We also don't know for sure that he had premarital sex. He could be married for all I know. Really, it does not matter. I was just pointing out that you can't really say that everyone over 16 masturbates. There are probably other reasons that some people might not masturbate that I didn't think of too.

chick1978

replied on April 20th, 2007

Experienced User

LIke Eri, said keep it clean and away from sex until fully healed.

Maybe the problem was that your partner was dry. If this is the case then maybe try some lubricant next time.

Llewellyn

replied on April 21st, 2007

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chick1978 wrote:

LIke Eri, said keep it clean and away from sex until fully healed.

Maybe the problem was that your partner was dry. If this is the case then maybe try some lubricant next time.

Agreed. Lack of lubrication is the most common cause of pain during sex. Usually it causes more pain for the female, but it certainly can be a problem for the man too. Not only can it be painful, but it can actually tear the skin. Keep it clean and dry, avoid sex, and keep an eye on it. If it gets worse or looks like it might be getting infected, go to a doctor.

Recky

replied on April 21st, 2007

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Honestly I never masturbated really dont know why just never have, yeah and I just had sex first time i think it was lack of lubrication honestly, but i guess i can hold out on sex until it fully heals, ima have to neways cuz it hurts to try and pull my skin back

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