|first i would like to thank everyone for replying.
well i did try it and it wasnt as bad as i thought it would be.
it was different, and it is going to take some getting used to.
but i did explain to her that i was a little apprehensive about it, and she was okay. but i figured what the hell, why not try somthing new. she likes to do it and it is somthing i can live with if it will make her happy. like i said its not so bad.