My Horrible Night (Page 1)
Must Read
What happens during labor? What do contractions feel like? And how do I know that labor has begun? Read on to learn about birthing basics....
Signs of labor occur after 36 weeks of pregnancy. Learn about the difference between real and false contractions. Plus, we outline signs of delivery complicati...
Almost all women worry about the pain of childbirth. Preparing for childbirth includes thinking about how you'd like to cope with the pain of labor. Read on for...
I wasn't going to post anything about a little incident that happened to me because it isn't pregnancy related, but then I remembered that I can post random things here so you guys get to hear me vent!
Monday night at like 11:00 I was arrested. Yup, you saw that right. I am a criminal
Anyways, I got pulled over because my registration light was out so I wasn't too concerned I knew that they would just give me a warning and tell me to fix it. I gave the officer all of my information and I knew that I would be done in no time.
Well, the officer came back and was like "Did you go to court recently for driving without proof of insurance"? Of course I had to say yes because I did about 6 months ago. Here's the shocker the officer then replied "I am going to have to arrest you ma'am because you are driving on a suspended license". I was all like "wha?" because I mean no one told me my license had been suspended.
Come to find out, I was supposed to have received a letter telling me to get high-risk insurance because of the other incident and I never received the letter. Also, the judge was supposed to tell me about that whenever he told me I had court supervision. No one told me I didn't know.
Now most people would think that the officer would have some compassion on little ole' me because I am pregnant and didn't even know about everything. Yeah right! He was so rude, kept me handcuffed the entire time and didn't even let me go to the bathroom. It hurts whenever .Luke kicks my full bladder too! He didn't help me out of the car, which getting out was quite a feat because I was handcuffed, pregnant and police cars are hard to get out of anyway. He just stood there and watched me struggle out of the car!
I was in a town that is almost 2 hours away from where I live but is only 5 minutes from my sister and a half hour from my mom's house. So, I decided that I would post bond for myself and then go to my sisters house till my husband picked me up. However,whenever I went to withdraw the money from their atm it wouldn't work. It was a Cirrus machine and I need a Plus machine or something like that. So then, I had to call my brother and he picked me up and had to post my bond for me! I had to wait for him to get there and I had already been there for like an 1 and a half. The officer still kept me handcuffed and by now my wrists were swelling up around the cuffs and hurting very bad.
That had to of been one of the lowest moments of my life. I had to pee, and the swelling was starting to hurt. My legs and ankles started to swell because I had been sitting in an awkward position but seeing as how I was chained to a railing on the wall, I couldn't move. I am still having allot of back pain because of this night!
Eventually my brother did get there and posted my bond. However, the officer took his sweet old time getting all of the paper work done. I have never been inot a jail or been arrested so I don't know how long this is supposed to take, but my brother has been arrested and he said that it never took that long and he also said that they took off his cuffs as soon as he got in the car and then again when he got into the building. I don't know why they didn't give the same courtesy to a pregnant woman!
Needless to say, my husband and I had to sink allot of money into getting my car back and paying towing fees. $125 for the towing people to take it only 4 blocks! Argh!! We had to pay the city to even get the piece of paper that said that we could pick up our car from the towing place! I think by the time it was all over we spent around 400 dollars , that we don't have I might add. That was half of our rent money, but poof there it went!
So, I am not very happy about it all but I am going to have my license back soon. I guess the only option I have is either cry or laugh. Ihaev chosen to laugh about it all because I now I feel like a common criminal. My family and I have been cracking jokes about it because I don't want to get all crazy about it. I just want it to go away. Besides there's nothing I can do to change it.
There is my crazy, crazy story. I hope that I didn't bore you for too long
~Courtnie
Monday night at like 11:00 I was arrested. Yup, you saw that right. I am a criminal
Anyways, I got pulled over because my registration light was out so I wasn't too concerned I knew that they would just give me a warning and tell me to fix it. I gave the officer all of my information and I knew that I would be done in no time.
Well, the officer came back and was like "Did you go to court recently for driving without proof of insurance"? Of course I had to say yes because I did about 6 months ago. Here's the shocker the officer then replied "I am going to have to arrest you ma'am because you are driving on a suspended license". I was all like "wha?" because I mean no one told me my license had been suspended.
Come to find out, I was supposed to have received a letter telling me to get high-risk insurance because of the other incident and I never received the letter. Also, the judge was supposed to tell me about that whenever he told me I had court supervision. No one told me I didn't know.
Now most people would think that the officer would have some compassion on little ole' me because I am pregnant and didn't even know about everything. Yeah right! He was so rude, kept me handcuffed the entire time and didn't even let me go to the bathroom. It hurts whenever .Luke kicks my full bladder too! He didn't help me out of the car, which getting out was quite a feat because I was handcuffed, pregnant and police cars are hard to get out of anyway. He just stood there and watched me struggle out of the car!
I was in a town that is almost 2 hours away from where I live but is only 5 minutes from my sister and a half hour from my mom's house. So, I decided that I would post bond for myself and then go to my sisters house till my husband picked me up. However,whenever I went to withdraw the money from their atm it wouldn't work. It was a Cirrus machine and I need a Plus machine or something like that. So then, I had to call my brother and he picked me up and had to post my bond for me! I had to wait for him to get there and I had already been there for like an 1 and a half. The officer still kept me handcuffed and by now my wrists were swelling up around the cuffs and hurting very bad.
That had to of been one of the lowest moments of my life. I had to pee, and the swelling was starting to hurt. My legs and ankles started to swell because I had been sitting in an awkward position but seeing as how I was chained to a railing on the wall, I couldn't move. I am still having allot of back pain because of this night!
Eventually my brother did get there and posted my bond. However, the officer took his sweet old time getting all of the paper work done. I have never been inot a jail or been arrested so I don't know how long this is supposed to take, but my brother has been arrested and he said that it never took that long and he also said that they took off his cuffs as soon as he got in the car and then again when he got into the building. I don't know why they didn't give the same courtesy to a pregnant woman!
Needless to say, my husband and I had to sink allot of money into getting my car back and paying towing fees. $125 for the towing people to take it only 4 blocks! Argh!! We had to pay the city to even get the piece of paper that said that we could pick up our car from the towing place! I think by the time it was all over we spent around 400 dollars , that we don't have I might add. That was half of our rent money, but poof there it went!
So, I am not very happy about it all but I am going to have my license back soon. I guess the only option I have is either cry or laugh. Ihaev chosen to laugh about it all because I now I feel like a common criminal. My family and I have been cracking jokes about it because I don't want to get all crazy about it. I just want it to go away. Besides there's nothing I can do to change it.
There is my crazy, crazy story. I hope that I didn't bore you for too long
~Courtnie
Did you find this post helpful?
|
) It they are pressing charges for you not having your license and your rights were not read...any decent attorney will be able to get you out of that. Especially, if it goes before a judge. A crying pregnant woman that was handled so rudely will win over pretty much anything.
I was arrested for a DUI, and I agree 100% that I should have gone to jail because I should have not been driving, but I was driving myself to the hospital cuz I broke my ankle(that is another story in itself!) I got pulled over cuz I stay stopped at a light after it turned green(I was searching for my cellphone and didn't know the light had changed) Any who, the two cops that arrested me were complete a-holes as well.....I had a freaking broken ankle for crying outloud and they still made me do all the sobriety test BS, you know walk a straight line, balance yourself on one leg....how in the hell are you suppose to do that with a broken ankle! Also I was wearing a skirt that night and after they handcuffed me and took me to the hospital, my skirt had worked it's way up and I was, uuuuummmm, exposed! Those jerks would not pull down my skirt for me and told me if I hadn't of gotten in this predicament I wouldn't have this problem....JERKS!!! I was cooperative and nice until then and then I started being a witch....you can hear me on the tape, some of the stuff I told them was freaking hilarious!!! When I got to the station all the guards were cracking jokes about my ankle and the walking boot I was wearing(I was not in a good mood and in a substantial amount of pain!)....one of the ladies said "Ma'am, are you aware of the fact that you have a boot on you foot" you know being a total smart*ss/witch and I looked at her and said "Ma'am, are you aware of the fact that there are a few places on you that I would love to shove this boot?" Needless to say, they took their sweet little time booking me...a full 24 hours to be exact! Anyway, that's my cops/jail experience....I laugh about it now too, what else can you do but learn from it!
Saving 
|
We comply with the HONcode standard for trustworthy health information: verify here. |
The site is not a replacement for professional medical opinion, examination, diagnosis or treatment.
Always seek the advice of your medical doctor or other qualified health professional before starting any new treatment
or making any changes to existing treatment. Do not delay seeking or disregard medical advice based on information
written by any author on this site. No health questions and information on eHealth Forum is regulated or
evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and therefore the information should not be used to diagnose, treat, cure or
prevent any disease without the supervision of a medical doctor. Posts made to these forums express the views and opinions of the author,
and not the administrators, moderators, or editorial staff and hence eHealth Forum and its principals will accept no
liabilities or responsibilities for the statements made.
This page was last updated on May 21, 2013.
© 2010 eHealthForum.com
This page was last updated on May 21, 2013.
© 2010 eHealthForum.com