Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: queensland, Australia
Symptoms In My Head Or....? Posted: 04-19-07 03:54am
im sixteen and have been having
unprotected sex with my boyfriend who is
twenty three for about a month. He has
ejaculated inside me numerous times. I am
quite sure that my nipples have darkened,
although Im not completely sure. When i
pee, I really have to pee and cant hold
it. That is not normal for me. Today I
noticed my breats are slightly sore and I
have had slight cramps for the last three
days. Also backaches. I find it strange
that a few of my relatives have asked me
if im pregnant in the last two weeks. I
didnt think I had gained weight so I dont
know why they would ask that?
My last boyfriend ejaculated in my every
time we had sex for about four months and
I never got pregnant. But he was sixteen.
So i am wondering is my new boyfriends
sperm more sterile because he is older?
and do you think I am suffering from
pregnancy symptoms or could it just be in
my head?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-19-07 09:05am
Thier age should have no bearing on you
becoming pregnant. There are many 16 year
old fathers out there. You simply got
lucky in not becoming pregnant with your
previous boyfriend.
Are you trying to become pregnant? It
sounds as though you are. You have had
unprotected sex numerous times. Of course
you could be pregnant.
You should also have yourself and your
partner tested for std's. Because if you
are having unprotected sex you are not
only at risk for pregnancy but for std's
as well. And having an std could effect
your future fertility if you are not
responsible in handling things.
You should post this in the Am I Pregnant
forum. You will probably get more
responces.
Good luck. Keep us posted!
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-19-07 12:52pm
I agree with mc4. Of course you could be
pregnant, that's where babies come from
after all. You're doing exactly what you
need to do to become pregnant.
The father's age should not make a
difference.
You need to see an ob-gyn right away.
Girls are supposed to see one once they
become sexually active anyway, but it's
even more important to see one if you are
pregnant. If you are not pregnant and
don't want to get pregnant, then the
ob-gyn would be able to give you some sex
ed. and some birth control.
Pregnancy symptoms are the same as a lot
of other things, so you can't go by
symptoms alone. You'll need to take a
home pregnancy test or have the ob-gyn
give you a test.
Last edited by Llewellyn on 04-19-07 16:50pm; edited 1 time in total
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rissa-ree
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: queensland, Australia
Posted: 04-19-07 14:03pm
thanks for your reply guys.
i am aware that i could be pregnant and im
aware of the forms of contraception, i was
just wondering if any one thinks i am
actually pregnant.
no, im not purposely trying to concieve. I
am just being careless. And no, neither I
nor my boyfriend have a sexually
transmitted disease, im sure of that.
since i posted, i have noticed other
possible symptoms.
my nipples definately have darkened +
stand out a lot more and are a whitish
colour at the very tip. also my areolas
have changed from pale pink to a
pinkish-tan colour.
im hungrier more often and filling up more
easily.
please reply.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 04-19-07 15:11pm
Do you have regular cycles? If so, when is
your period due?
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-19-07 16:57pm
Take a pregnancy test and get some birth
control. Like I said, symptoms of
pregnancy are the same as a lot of other
things, even an oncoming period. So we
can't tell you or anyone else for sure if
you're pregnant or not. All we can say is
that it is very possible. It is possible
every single time you have sex, but
obviously, not using protection at all is
going to increase your chances. Everyone
is different though. Some couples try for
years without getting pregnant. So it's
very possible, but not a certainty. We
can't tell you much more than that unless
you want information on birth control,
ob-gyns, prenatal care, or anything like
that.
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chick1978
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Apr 2007 Posts: 68 Location: canada
Posted: 04-19-07 17:28pm
You could be pregnant.
If you were pregnant would you keep the
baby?
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rissa-ree
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: queensland, Australia
Posted: 04-20-07 02:57am
yeah i understand that completely.
ive done two home pregnancy tests; both
negative.
you know, obviously judgemental people
would look down on me if i did choose to
have a baby so young.
but i dont feel, look or act sixteen.
and i can think of nothing more wonderful
then bringing a little creation of my own
into this world.
i have younger sibblings and im very good
with them.
so if i am pregnant, i will have to a very
big and serious think about my options..
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rissa-ree
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Apr 2007 Posts: 8 Location: queensland, Australia
Posted: 04-20-07 03:36am
and my period is irregular, so i cany rely
on that to tell me.
my boyfriend wants to take me to the
doctor after my temporary visit to Sydney
which willl be at least a week away.
and then i have to order a medicare card,
which will take even longer.
i dont trust pregnancy tests as ive heard
too many stories.
so in the meantime, id really find comfort
in hearing your opinions.
thanks heaps <3
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 04-20-07 12:59pm
A lot of people do have a couple of
negative tests before they finally show up
positive, so you're right to not want to
trust those negatives just yet. Going to
the doctor sounds like a good idea. Like
I said, you should get looked at anyway to
either get birth control or prenatal care,
tips, and information.
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conqueror86
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 11-13-07 09:06am
I wouldn't worry about it. I've had
unprotected sex and ejaculated inside and
everything and so far nobody's gotten
pregnant. My current girlfriend is 17 and
we've been having unprotected sex for 3
months and she hasn't gotten pregnant yet.
So don't worry about it and just enjoy
yourself The chances of
actually getting pregnant are actually
slim, since there's a bunch of factors
that influence that (like where you are in
your cycle).
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Posted: 11-13-07 09:13am
conqueror86
wrote:
I wouldn't worry about it.
I've had unprotected sex and ejaculated
inside and everything and so far nobody's
gotten pregnant. My current girlfriend is
17 and we've been having unprotected sex
for 3 months and she hasn't gotten
pregnant yet. So don't worry about it and
just enjoy yourself The chances of
actually getting pregnant are actually
slim, since there's a bunch of factors
that influence that (like where you are in
your cycle).
Wow dude, I think you need to go back to
sex ed or something. That has got to be
the worst advise to give someone.
You can get pregnant ANY time during a
cycle. Go ahead and keep having
unprotected sex and get your 17 year old
girlfriend pregnant and then see where
your life goes.
The chances of
actually getting pregnant are actually
slim, since there's a bunch of factors
that influence that (like where you are in
your cycle).
