Hey..I have the same kinda problem...I mean I love having sex with him...Im not saying that he doesnt pleasure me because he does...I just dont think ive ever had a full orgasm..He asks me and I guess I lie..I say that yea I have because sometimes I feel like I have but im not sure...I dont know what it feels like because ive never really had one..So idk what to do either..

Im not an expert but i'd say, if your not sure then you really haven't had one. You will know when you do, its a feeling I cant even begin to explain.

In my own personal experience, I have only had one or two during intercourse I usually have mine during foreplay which is brilliant.

Hope ive been of some help

jo x

It will just happen one day when you least expect it. After that, you should be able to figure out how to make them happen on a regular basis.

1. It has a lot to do with your mood... There are times when I know right off the bat that this time I won't be seeing stars...
2. It has a lot to do with finding exactly the right position that works for you. You'll feel it when you find it... It feels good... Move around and experiment.
3. It helps if you trust your guy 100% that he's not going to hurt you at all during sex. It's hard to come if you're gasping every time he enters because you're afraid he's gonna hit you 'there'...
4. Be sure you at least know what an orgasm feels like so you'll know it without a doubt when it hits. (i'm talkin' about auto-stimulation here, now)

good luck!
Ruby