K!! You have me!!!!!

I'm so sorry your bro & sis are being selfish!!!!!

you can .i.m/pm me if you want!!!!

Sarah

Hey, Sarah...I'm letting go...

aw k im so sorry your mother didnt make and you have to deal with this. is there a way to say they cant get ne thing? or is that not possible with out a will? im sorry u have such awful siblings who dont care. karma will strick them and im sure your mother is in a better place getting to see who really loves her.

I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this right now, I can't imagine what you must be feeling.

I'm sorry your brother and sister are being such jerks about everything, and I really hope things get sorted soon.

I wish I could say something to help.. but we're all here for you any time you wanna vent or just need someone nice to talk to.

<3

Oh .kay. Welcome back, hon, and .i'm so sorry for your loss. It must be devastating. and .i'm sorry your siblings are acting this way. It's definitely not what you need, especially now, and it's insulting to your mother's memory.

I am so sorry Kay, I am here if you need to talk about it.

Sweetheart, I am so sorry that you have to go through this. It is a horrible situation for anyone to go thru let alone to have your "family" treat you and your mother so horribly. The money and will should not have even been a topic of interest until after the funeral at least. (unless it had to do with a living will) Let alone to be harrasing you about it. You need time for you right now. Not to play banker for you siblings. Agian, I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do please let me know.

I am not above calling them and telling them that I am your attorney and if they do not stop harrasing you I will be forced to have a restraining order put into effect. I'll do it!

*all the wrong things should be ignored because i have to "let it go"

*forget harassment, darlings, I'm letting it go...

good idea.

first of all, my deepest condolences. Second, I'm sorry you have no one close by to talk to...I'm here as well.

*shrugs*

That isn't cruel. Its normal, especialy the way they have been treating you. I would have told them that is what I wished. So your handling the situation much better than I would.

~Big hug~

In the end..Did you do all that you could for your mom?, did she know that you were everything she wished you would be?, Did she somehow know that you would do the right thing?..If you said yes to all of that, then what ever your siblings get or do with your mom's Legacy just let it go. pray on it and let it go.

my relationship with my mother was never in question. their behavior is what i'm venting about. people do vent sometimes. you know, release stress? you know what, this isn't even worth it. i've had enough to deal with in the past week and a half and I thought i could get rid of some stress here. obviously i can't. i know what my mother wanted and this wasn't it. not two children that she didn't even have a relationship with fighting over money that she was saving up for herself like curs over a bone.

i understood that I risked answers that i wouldn't like by posting in a public forum but if i'm understanding your message correctly then it's beyond the pale. if the situation were reversed how would you feel? i hope a similar situation arises for you and that you're told to let it go. actually, please post it here, so i can be the one to tell you.

I'm sorry .k.I didn't see the post but I get the gist(I think) of what happened.It sucks,and when push comes to shove,the real person comes out on someone.When my nana died my aunt/uncles were all about the mone(one imparticular).Stay strong girl,she's looking down to you

Aww, .k I'm not exactly sure what's going on....i've been gone the past few days, but I'm so sorry your siblings are treating you this way. I'm always here if you need to talk, or even just to yell or vent to someone. *hugs*