i had to have an abortion 2 months ago at 18 weeks which involved being induced. was in labour for 14 hours, i recently started having sex again with my partner but he keeps loosing his erection, he told me i feel looser than before the labour, i feel really confused and uncomfortable with my image and body now, we were talking the other day though and he said that it stil felt ok and that he doesnt know why he looses his erection. He said it might be him. I am not an expert in chilbirth or post childbirth but i imagine at 18 weeks the baby is not very big, would this matter?

Also i have inserted my finger and i am able to squeeze my finger with my muscles, i am so confused and have no ne else to talk to about it.

Somebody please help.