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Q: I Have a Serious Boyfriend, But Now I Like Women!?
asked by: beanie100 on April 16th, 2007
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So, I have begun to have these feelings and I think that I might be bisexual, but I have never done anything with a woman before, so I feel like I can't really know. I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 3 and a half years who I still totally love and get totally turned on by and I have no interest in breaking up with him, in fact I have often thought about spending my life with him, but I really don't know what to do. For starters, I feel like I can't spend a life time feeling like I have this attraction to women, but I never had the opportunity to act on it, but at the same time I don't want to compromise what I have. I feel like I should tell him about the way I feel but I don't want him to freak out. I don't know if he would understand. In the past he has always joked about fearing he might loose me to a woman, because I often comment about other women. I know people will suggest an open relationship, but I'm just not designed for that I wouldn't be able to handle it. I am completely and totally confused.

Please if anyone has ever been in a similar experience, or has any advice...
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princessnae
replied on April 25th, 2007
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Talk to Him
You have been with him for 3 years talk to him. At first he might freak out but try and explain to him how you feel. If you never experienced a person of the opposite sex then those feelings may just be a what would that be like thought. I wish you luck and try to be open with him it might help to write your thoughts down ahead of time so you can get everything you want to say out.
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