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Q: Anyone?
asked by: SamanthaM on April 16th, 2007
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Anyone want to have my c-section for me? I only have 3 days left and I am getting really nervous about it. I'm nervous about how I'm going to handle two babies and nervous about the c-section all together. I've been so sad most of the time lately thinking about it. I think I am going to be extremely depressed after Caleb is born. I was pretty bad for a while after Ethan was born.

On the other hand I am so excited to not be pregnant anymore. This pregnancy has gone by pretty fast, but I'm glad it's going to be over soon. No more babies for me! I want to go on a diet and exercise.. I'm so sick of being this large!! Jon and I were going through clothes in our closet yesterday and he was looking at a pair of my old pants, and he didn't think they were mine.. He probably thought they were way too small or something. I know he didn't do it on purpose, but it made me feel like crap! Crying or Very sad
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on April 16th, 2007
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I'm sure you're beautiful preggy girl!!!

I think a pregnant woman is gorgeous!! But being preggy for 2 straight years, I'm sure has taken a toll on your esteem!

Just know that you'll have all the time in the world to lose the weight!!

And you'll be a great mommy to 2 boys!!!

Sarah
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on April 16th, 2007
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I know how you feel I did back to back just like you (preg. and c-sections)
my 2 child was barely 4 weeks when i was pregnant again with my 3rd. and i am still trying to loose the wait but the older we are the harder it is to drop the weight. Evil or Very Mad
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replied on April 16th, 2007
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candita sky wrote:
I know how you feel I did back to back just like you (preg. and c-sections)
my 2 child was barely 4 weeks when i was pregnant again with my 3rd. and i am still trying to loose the wait but the older we are the harder it is to drop the weight. Evil or Very Mad


Shocked
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Bridget
replied on April 16th, 2007
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aww, sam, you're going to do great! is jon taking time off to help you?

SamanthaM wrote:
Jon and I were going through clothes in our closet yesterday and he was looking at a pair of my old pants, and he didn't think they were mine.. He probably thought they were way too small or something. I know he didn't do it on purpose, but it made me feel like crap! Crying or Very sad


a couple months ago nick grabbed a pair of jeans out of the dirty laundry basket and threw them on, then he came into the living room going on and on about how these must be an old pair and how .h.u.g.e. they were.

do we see where this is going?

they were mine.
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AyaMiyaki
replied on April 16th, 2007
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I would seriously cry if .aaron did something like that. I lost my mind on him the other night. THe grocery store was running a sale on .blue .bell pints, and because we never buy ice cream we stocked up. Well I was eating one called "chocolate brownie overload" and was raving to .aaron about how good it was and how he needed to come take it away from me before I ate the whole thing in one sitting. And he told me if I did that .i'd just gain "even more weight" and feel sorry for myself. And when I glared at him he said "that isn't a bad thing! I think you look good with a bigger ass."

Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on April 16th, 2007
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good cover story my man says the same thing about liking a bigger azz Twisted Evil
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replied on April 16th, 2007
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IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:

a couple months ago nick grabbed a pair of jeans out of the dirty laundry basket and threw them on, then he came into the living room going on and on about how these must be an old pair and how .h.u.g.e. they were.

do we see where this is going?

they were mine.


My husband did that the other day. He tried wearing a pair of my bigger pants that I bought after I got pregnant. I started crying and he felt really bad.

The sad thing is that whenever he does laundry he still keeps putting that pair of jeans in the drawer with his jeans. I guess they are pretty large though.
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replied on April 16th, 2007
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AyaMiyaki wrote:
I would seriously cry if .aaron did something like that. I lost my mind on him the other night. THe grocery store was running a sale on .blue .bell pints, and because we never buy ice cream we stocked up. Well I was eating one called "chocolate brownie overload" and was raving to .aaron about how good it was and how he needed to come take it away from me before I ate the whole thing in one sitting. And he told me if I did that .i'd just gain "even more weight" and feel sorry for myself. And when I glared at him he said "that isn't a bad thing! I think you look good with a bigger ass."

Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad Evil or Very Mad


omg laura!!! i would of died! Crying or Very sad
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SamanthaM
replied on April 16th, 2007
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IHeartMyBostonTerrier wrote:
aww, sam, you're going to do great! is jon taking time off to help you?

SamanthaM wrote:
Jon and I were going through clothes in our closet yesterday and he was looking at a pair of my old pants, and he didn't think they were mine.. He probably thought they were way too small or something. I know he didn't do it on purpose, but it made me feel like crap! Crying or Very sad


a couple months ago nick grabbed a pair of jeans out of the dirty laundry basket and threw them on, then he came into the living room going on and on about how these must be an old pair and how .h.u.g.e. they were.

do we see where this is going?

they were mine.


Well Jon is taking Thursday off for my c-section, but he is working Friday and Saturday. He has Sunday off which is the day I'll be going home, and he is taking Monday off. Besides that, he needs to work because if he didn't we'd be broke. His mom is taking 2 weeks off to help me though, so that's good.

What did he say when he realized they were yours? I would have died Shocked
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Becky
replied on April 16th, 2007
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it'll be just fine sam. hopefully you won't suffer with pnd with your 2nd. i had itr eally bad with layla but didn't get it with logan then got it with angel (although this may of just been the circumstaces)

it is not as hard as people make out with two close together. when logan was a baby layla ould just ignore him completely until he started crawling. my two are ok togteher most of the time but they have their moments where they fight. this is the same whatever the age gap though....
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on April 16th, 2007
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they are easier to raise closer together kinda like twins same feeding naps etc..
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SamanthaM
replied on April 16th, 2007
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candita sky wrote:
they are easier to raise closer together kinda like twins same feeding naps etc..


Yeah, unless the older one won't take naps unless he's being held... Which is one of my problems.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
replied on April 16th, 2007
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aw sorry I didnt have that prob maybe it will get better just do what is easy for you this was easier for me to do.
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michelle1981
replied on April 16th, 2007
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Aww sweetie, i would if it were possible. I could do a 100 more lol(of course i can say that now).

I'm so excited for you though! It'll be over in no time.......
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hopefulmjz
replied on April 16th, 2007
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aww, I sure hope you feel better once .caleb is born. I'm excited, I can't wait to see him!
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replied on April 17th, 2007
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dont worry sam im sure once you see caleb everything will just feel right ya know? as for ppd ask for something before you leave the hospital. u can take zoloft in same dosage even when breastfeeding. thats what i did with liam cuz like you i wasnt sure what i was gunna do with two babies
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