haven't you got an ius now?
they do make periods lighter and shorter...

or did you not get it yet?

dun dun duuunnnnnnnnn.another one! ooooh,well I hope your not.(not to be mean) Your parents would probably give you more grief and Jonny would still owe you bookoo mula girl!

Nope, I get it fitted on the 25th

I know.. I sent .Jonny a really long rant of an email earlier.. it's ultimatum time.. either he pays up and actually starts being a father or it's over.

ooooh,I'm so nosy! what did you say?you don't have to tell me if you don't want.

Nah I don't mind. hehe. I just went on about how when I was pregnant he chose to stay with me and raise .Jenny with me.. and how so far he's done f*ck all to help me. He hasn't paid one penny.. and even his dad has given me money (his dad is a total person who abandoned his own family a few years ago). When he's here with me he doesn't do anything to help.. he even had the audacity (good word) to complain when he was disturbed in the morning when .Jenny cried.. I'm the one who has to get up to feed her and if he wakes up he can go back to sleep, but nooooo even that isn't good enough.

whaaaaa?!? dude,that would piss me off.

I'm just wondering, why would you have unprotected sex with a dead beat? I know that's harsh, but I mean, he owes you money, he doesn't help with .jenny, and he complains when he gets woken up by her.

I wouldn't want to even think about being preggy from a man who acts like he doesn't care.



ps, let me know if this offended you. I will totally feel like crap!! I'm just curious. a lot can happen in the heat of the moment!

Sarah

sounds like my dh when ever one of the lil ones would cry he get mad at me for not getting up to make them stop quiker. sorry hes like that hun good luck.

He used to be a completely different person. He's just changed so much. And I'm still in love with him.

I'm sick of defending him.. but he is genuinely a good guy.. he just has issues I think. He's a major momma's boy. He doesn't even have his own bank account.. all his money goes into hers and she merrily spends it on clothes and shoes. My daughter's money .W.A.S.T.E.D on her crap!!!

He is getting his own account sorted.. he's just taking forever doing it. I keep nagging, and nagging, and nagging.. and then I feel like a bad girlfriend because I keep starting arguments between us. He comes up with every excuse in the book... argh I'm so stuck in the middle. I love him so much.. and he loves me.. but he does this to me and my parents get mad and take it out on me even though it's not my fault and I get everyone going "why don't you just dump him??" etc etc.. it's not that easy =(

no its not hun you do what is right for you and your lil girl not what every one else is telling you.

i'm sorry .zan. I didn't mean to get you upset!

I just couldn't see myself getting preggy by a boy who has no interest in the outcome of his daughter's money. Or even his money. ya know?

Many guys are momma's boys, but that's no excuse to let her blow the money stupid crap!

I'm not telling you to leave him. I'm just wondering why you would allow yourself to fall preggy by him again? You know how he is and I'd think the stress of .jenny alone would be enough to realize you don't need 2 babas by him.

Let him start taking care of .jenny, *then* introduce the idea of a 2nd.

Sarah