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Q: Lack of Conversation After First Time Meeting

asked by: Busy B on April 16th, 2007

New User

I have always had a problem with not having anything to say to people. When i meet ew people i can chat away for hours but then if we meet again i find i have nothing to say to them. I have recently been out with someone, we had a brilliant time when we first met but the second time i found it hard to think of things to say. we are meeting again this week but I am scared I will not be abe to talk to him about anyhting. This seems to happen a lot of the time with people.

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Willa Weintraub

replied on May 2nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Re: Lack of Conversation After First Time Meeting

Busy B wrote:

think ahead about a few subjects,maybe elaborate on some you talked about before. What bth of you want to do with your lives,what your looking for,what you like to do for fun,what you do for a living,how many siblings you have, what you have a passion for but Do *not* talk about ex's yet though,this is too much on a second date.talk about things you have in common.go somewhere that you can have lots of fun and not have to worry about talking so much.talk about your childhood.

paul995

replied on May 6th, 2007

Experienced User

Let out all your inhibitions. Let loose and be yourself. I'm sure it's easy to be you. Rather than lngering on thoughts of whether you'd be making a mistake. Just be cautious a bit of what topics to open up. I'm sure you are able to converse well.

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