hi, im 19 years old and my penis has never
really grown and is pretty small. and
lately i have been having trouble getting
proper erections which has really started
to effect my confidence, is there
something wrong with me??? wat should i do
to resolve the problem???
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fiona05
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Posted: 04-14-07 19:32pm
i suppose you need to explain this a bit
further. how small is small? there are so
many people post here about having small
penises, when in fact they are well within
the average range.
and when you talk about problems getting
an erection, is this by yourself? with a
girl? how long has it been happening, are
you under stress, etc?
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markkq
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Penis Problems Posted: 04-15-07 09:18am
well its not even 5 inches hard!! well its
an all round problem, its happening both
with girls and by myself. i dont think im
under that much stress really even though
i ave a lot of assignments at the moment,
but that wouldnt explain the last few
months!! but i remember the first time it
happened i was pretty drunk, i tink i mite
have let it get into my head a bit... but
i dunno, wat do i do????????
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markkq
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Penis Problems Posted: 04-15-07 09:21am
well its not even 5 inches hard!! well its
an all round problem, its happening both
with girls and by myself. i dont think im
under that much stress really even though
i ave a lot of assignments at the moment,
but that wouldnt explain the last few
months!! but i remember the first time it
happened i was pretty drunk, i tink i mite
have let it get into my head a bit... but
i dunno, wat do i do????????
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fiona05
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Posted: 04-15-07 18:36pm
i've heard it widely said that the average
size of an adult male's erect penis is
between 4.5"-6". i'm guessing you're
around the 4.5 mark then? well you're not
a stallion, but you are a normal size. my
first sexual partner (well i never
measured him, but it is my estimate!) was
just over 4.5" erect and it never gave us
any problems. i was able to orgasm pretty
much every time. as they say, it's not the
size of the boat, it's the motion of the
ocean. you don't need a big penis to
stimulate a woman's clitoris or her
g-spot. so unless you are dating really
shallow people, you should have no reason
to worry in that dept. besides, i've
heard the penis can keep growing even up
until your mid twenties.
well as for the erection issues, the
doctor is always a good place to begin
with. whether or not you need to go
really depends on how frequently you are
having these issues. i suppose it's
natural to go through fallow periods if
you are under pressure in any way. but
it's always worth ruling things out.
illnesses like diabetes can often cause
erection problems. men can get venous
leaks and things too, but as you are young
this is unlikely. if the doctor finds no
physical problem then he is gonna tell you
it's all in your head, so it's up to you
to go easy on yourself. relax! take the
pressure off yourself.
it's highly likely that if you are running
this notion that there is something wrong
round and round in your head you'll start
believeing yourself. you know what i mean?
it's that old story of the viscious cycle.
you don't wanna go convincing yourself
you have a full-blown problem when it may
be nothing at all. you say you were drunk
the first time it happened. well you
almost have the root of your problem right
there! they don't call it brewers droop
for nothing. alcohol will kill your
erection before it's even started. for
sure. i dont know a single guy who can
keep it up when drunk. that's totally
normal.
it happens to everyone. it's happened to
every guy i've been with. don't beat
yourself up about it. i'm sure it's just
anxiety, mate. relax and take things
slow.
