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Q: She Does'nt Love Me Back
asked by: eddieg87 on April 13th, 2007
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for the past couple months i've been talking to a friend i know back in high school. we would hangout go to movies with friends and stay up late talking on the phone till we fell asleep. 4 weeks ago we had, or at least i thought we had, a really great day together. we spent all day watching movies, talking about everything, i even held her in my arms. i knew i liked her but after that day i was in love. she was the only thing i could think about, i know it sounds corny but its true. the next week i learned she was going to austin tx, we live in fort worth tx, for the sxsw festival with some friends. she invited me down, and i happily accepted. i swear on every once of blood in my body that, that was the best week of my life. long story short we saw some bands, and hung out in austin all week and had a good time. when i get back to my apartment i decide that i'm going to tell her how i feel, like it wasn't obvious or anything! a little off topic, but i just had some extreme deja vu. so i call her to see if she would to go somewhere with me, and she declines my invite, i don't see or talk to her much for two weeks. i finally catch her at home, by this point my love for this girl is eating me alive, so i begin to tell her how i feel and she's speechless, not in a good way. she starts telling me that were too good of friends for her to love in that way, so i take it and leave it at that. that was 2 weeks ago and still she doesn't talk to me as much i hardly see her, take that back i never see her. im just really sad, and confused. i still love her but she doesn't love me. if anyone has any advice im open to anything.
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nightangel73
replied on April 13th, 2007
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oh well if she doesn't like for more than a friend then so be it. Just keep being her friend like that. And do not pressure her ever. Maybe later on she changes her mind but if you pressure it guaranteed that you will scare her away. Meantime if I were you I would date other people.
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Akkette
replied on April 17th, 2007
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It is sad when someone does not love you back, You need to make a decision if you want to remain friends with her (could be very hard) or if you want to cease the friendship. If you decide to keep the friendship you need to make sure you dont make any further moves on her as it may scare her away.

Good Luck

Natalie
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Willa Weintraub
replied on May 2nd, 2007
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Akkette wrote:
It is sad when someone does not love you back, You need to make a decision if you want to remain friends with her (could be very hard) or if you want to cease the friendship. If you decide to keep the friendship you need to make sure you dont make any further moves on her as it may scare her away.

Good Luck

Natalie
I agree.I think you have a right to be upset,she pretty much lead you on letting you hold her and such.I would forget her.
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paul995
replied on May 2nd, 2007
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Ture, I agree with the resto of you guys. You can't never force someone to love you in return. At least, you've been honest to her and she was also honest to tell you what she feels.

Don't pressure her. Probably she found something in you the reason why she wants to go out with you. She has found a friend in "you" and i believe if it continues this way, then you'll be getting a relationship that's more than the romantic one. GOOD LUCK!
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