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Q: I Need Some Help On This Father Stuff...
asked by: __Notorious__ on August 28th, 2003
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Guys say that when the baby is born....The guy starts to feel neglected.?...Is there any way that I wont feel like that Sad ? I need some advice Question ....Thanx

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HongKongChick
replied on August 29th, 2003
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But the question is that are u feeling that way? If u are, then why is that? What is she doing or not doing now that were different from before?

I mean a baby is in her stomach and it's a pretty difficult thing to deal with, plus, pregnancy comes with lots of emotional, physical, and mental difficulties.

So if she is just not caring u as much? Not doing things with u? Think about that she has a little life inside of her, and she needs ur 100% support, at the same time, u will then need to tell her how u feel at times, becoz she might overlooks ur problems becoz pregnancy seems to her is a bigger problem.

If she is busy with the unborn a bit too much, then u need to make some friends, go out with the guys, and just doing what u do for fun, but then also come home to her in a supportive way.
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sazz
replied on September 9th, 2003
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Hey Confused Im sorry to tell you this but when the mother of your child gives birth to your baby, you may feel neglected and left out, my word of advice is that she is going to need you, no matter how many times she says she can cope. Its hard work bringing up a child that you cant hand back at the end of the day. Your support will be greatly appreciated and that way you may not feel left out.

Talking from personal experience, with my pregnancy I told my boyfriend not to worry to much about feeling left out and in return he made himself always there and helpful.
Good luck!! Laughing
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__Notorious__
replied on September 10th, 2003
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Thanx Alot For the Advize !
I thank u for the advize....It helped much......
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Missa
replied on September 11th, 2003
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Well you should be admiered for staying tru to her! Second don't worrie because dad's are the best things and if you do feel pushed don't worrie your turn is for when they come to you in need, graduation, marrag, and there own little ones! It will be you they charish for life!
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