I think you'll be happier back in florida and having your parent's close by.

it is scary, but it's also the job he signed up for. do you know how long he'll be gone for?

i think it'll be good for you to go back to florida.

good luck to you and jason!

I think i'll end up flying alone with the kids, i dont think we will have jordynnes passport back in time, if i go, my parents neighborhood is turning into the ghetto like seriously, gang stuff . So i dunno. a few mths ago my dads license plate and hitch on his truck was stolen. a few weeks ago someone got robbed at gunpoint right near my dads truck of there weed. My brother found a used needle full of blood outside his window. There was a gang fight about to start last week 40 people outside knives and baseball bats etc , 8 cops called out, so now i guess they are patrolling daily etc, i might be safer here lol.

im not sure i think 6 plus months depends, i heard theyre extending people in iraq but nothing in afghanistan so i really dont know.

why don't you stay with your paretns fo rthe time being and then get a place on your own in a more safe environment? where do they live? I think it will be better here,you'll have family and friends!

the thing with that is , is i dont have my car if i go to florida. so i wouldnt have a way to get anywhere at all, so stayin with my parents would be easier cuz i can always borrow my dads truck or my gmas car. i thought about finding a place there but then we would have twice as much furniture by then with the stuff here in germany and then in florida. so im like confused about what i wanna do for sure there are pros and cons for each, maybe ill write a list of pros and cons for both and see. to bad my bro and his gf are broke they could fly here and stay here but neither of em got money. they dont have mega important jobs etc. and jason could go to customs and get my bro permission to drive his vehicle. i just really dont know. i dont want to do the plane ride alone and im nervous about the neighborhood now, its changed and not in a good way since i left. there lease ends in 6 mths though but still between now and then its like eh im nervous. i guess it really depends how long he is gone etc. i dont know . I just dont know what to do right now.

well,I think you should have a house sale,and sell stuff ou really don't need or want and use that money to help you get a car when you get here.Jason will be sinding you money,no?use what you need and save the rest.when you have enough money,buy a cheap little car that can get you from point a-b and you should be fine.where in FLa do they live?

they live in west tampa. we will be hopefulyl able to use the tax money for the tickets to get me there, we gotta still do our taxes but we have to ammend 2005 before we can do this yrs and we owe $3,000. he should get BAH while im there and hazerdous duty and family seperation. He might only be gone 6 mths not to sure. Since it seems everyone is gone for like ever at times and extends each time right before theyre supposed to come back. so i dont know what our money situation will look like, it takes a while for the army to get the pay corrected where i receive all that etc. so i really dont know i might end up just here i dont know

well I hope things work out for you hun!

Well I ll be there if you go to FL. 6mo doesnt sound to bad. i wouldnt move out if stevens deployment was only 6mo but since is almost a year im gunna. deployment sucks! i wanna be able to cuddle my husband every night for the rest of my life. do u have aim? we could talk if ya want.

i do my aim name is the same as my username on here

man it seems like everyone is getting deployed, dh is getting deployed in early july (tenitivly) for at least 6 monthes but probably more around 9 monthes, sucks cause valkyrie will only be about a month or 2 old

at least i still live with my mum too (kinda complicated situation) so it wont be too bad, but it sucks knwing hes gonna miss so much

~alicia~

yeah jeez i wonder who will be left haha everyones gonna be over in the war no soldiers left here. my hubby leaves july i think as well not sure, he still isnt home from work and its 7pm i dont know whats up with that. I wish i lived in the states it wouldnt be sooo bad but there is like NOTHING here at all. I hate it.

Does .Jordynne have dual citizenship, .Diane? She was born in .Germany to .American parents, so I think she is a citizen of both .Germany and the .U.S. I'm sure you already know all of this, but that may mean she can obtain a passport from either country (don't quote me on this, .I
m probably wrong). She just can't have both (this, .I know for a fact).
There may be some way to expedite the process, but I'm not sure.

she does have dual citizenship, she has the german birth certificate already we paid the $65 money order for the american one but they wont send out for it until we do her passport then they send that and the request for the SSN all at the same time, jason has to work for an hr today then after that hes gonna go try and get her passport pictures done and hopefully the ladys there, they are no fee passports issued on base so we dont pay wich i dont know if they can expedite. jason now isnt sure when hes going just if something happens he may be next hes at the top of the list but we are tryin to get all done asap in case. this month the lady for passports wont be there everyday she kept callin to remind me , but the passport pics they dont do on base so we gotta go out to parsburg, stupid they can buy ascreen and a camera and do em on base they are just lazy and cheap. Not that hard to take apassport pic with a camera made specifically for it u can train anyone, iworked at walgreens and did them all the time. hes gonna find out if she is there if there can be a rush put on it, i think thats all we need and our taxes wich hes gonna work on today to for the amendment so we can do our reg taxes.