I Need Someone to Talk to Posted: 04-10-07 09:12am
Hello, i am 21yrs old, as of 4/22. i have
2 kids and i am married... Needless to say
i am also depressed. i moved to another
state with my husband, (over 17hrs
driving), and i have no one here, His
family hates me, and i dont know if i want
to be with him anymore. We have only been
married for little over 6 months. I have
one child by him and another by another.
The one that is not his is always getting
mistreated by his family. I cant just go
home cause of my family, Me and my family
dont even have a relationship. I feel like
i am the only one in this world. I feel
like the world is comming down on my
shoulders. i have no friends up here. I
dont know anyone up here. I have no one to
talk to. There is so much on my mind i
feel like im going to explode. I cant talk
to him. My daughters are 2-1/2 and 10
months, so i cant talk to them.I just dont
know how to get out of this state of mind.
I dont know what to do. i am going to go
crazy if something dont change soon.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 04-10-07 09:55am
you need to seek medical attention. you
have 2 children under the age of 1 (was
your 2nd one premature??) you have made a
huge life change. YOu need to get help
for post partum depression and you need to
talk to your husband about how u feel.
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kalaea
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Posts: 2 Location: usa
Posted: 04-10-07 10:28am
My daughters are two and a half and 10
months.
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hawkeye69
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 29 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 04-12-07 09:05am
definately get some counseling to help you
regain a strong sense of self. It sounds
like you are just too overwhelmed. I was
also a young mom so I do kind of
understand. My husband's family didn't
like me and my own family, I am estranged
from. P.M. me if you would like to talk
more!
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MomOf2Boys
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Feb 2007 Posts: 6 Location: NC
Posted: 04-12-07 22:59pm
Wow! I was in the same situation 3 years
ago. My hubby moved me and my 2 small
children (9mths and 3 at the time) 14
hours away from my family. It lasted 10
months.......the worst 10 months of my
life. I felt all alone and missed my
family terribly. I finally couldn't take
it anymore and I left my husband. I
stayed gone about 2-3 weeks and then after
all the begging I came back. But........I
searched the internet daily trying to find
him a job and it was very soon I found one
that transferred him back to NC. If we
wouldn't have moved back I think I would
have stayed gone. We lived with his
family who treated me and my children
awful. It was the worst experience of my
life. That was 3 years ago and I have not
spoken to any of them........neither has
my husband.
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Fasttricky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 May 2006 Posts: 21 Location: Manchester, England
the Same Thing!! Posted: 04-12-07 23:27pm
Me and my husband and 2 children of 3 and
8 moved to Canada from England 18 months
ago. It has been so difficult as we are
in a new country and have no family. As
well we didn't have any friends either, so
we were alone. It is deffinitely
difficult, hard and emotional, but
hopefully over time you should get
settled. As for his family, maybe you
need to speak to your husband and tell him
how you feel.
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Akkette
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Apr 2007 Posts: 50 Location: Australia
Posted: 04-15-07 06:51am
Have you thought about enrolling your
children in some kind of kindergarten or a
childrens play group. This will give you
the opportunity to mix with other mothers
and make friends along the way. Your kids
will be able to make friends and most of
all you will be able to get out of the
house and start socialising again.
There are also a few chat web sites
dedicated to depression. It is amazing how
many people you will find going through
the same situation as yourself.
One i know of is depression net. They are
very supportive.
Goos Luck
Natalie
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cinderellaaa
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Feb 2007 Posts: 40 Location: LA
Posted: 04-20-07 16:21pm
u know what, i think u need to be
surrounded by ppl always, try 2 go out 4 a
wake at least look at ppl faces, try 2 get
in touch with anybody, that may help a lil
bit
