.you need to get a blood test to tell who the father is. .in the end it is up to you to decide what to do with your child's future and no one on an internet chat forum can help you with that. .i wish you all the best and .i hope that everything turns out ok for you and especially your child. .from what it sounds like .d is being a great father to your baby and in reality that is all that matters. .who the baby looks like is not nearly as important as who the baby will decide to model her life after, but at this point the choice of her male role model is entirely up to you.

If I'm in your situation, I'll stick with D but to put my mind at ease I do the blood test as what the other poster told you and who cares who's the father even if the other guy is the biolocal father - the important thing that is your child have a good father (D) and a good grandparent that all your child needs -T.L.C. all the best good luck

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*H*D*O*L*L,if he loves the child and doesn't care if he isn't the father,if he loves her anyway and he changes her diapers,you don't need a paternity test to tell you who that father is.there is a difference between a father and a sperm donor.If it is really bothering you,save $$$ for the test but let him know no matter how it comes out he will always be her daddy!god luck.oh btw,how old are you?

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I'm so glad to hear you say that, about being a proud mother! Too many girls your age, with child, try to play out their "wild days" while raising a child, and the child suffers. You do the right thing for that kid and all the good will come back to you! I'm proud of you!

The biologica father has a right to know who. It does not matter if the other guy loves the child or not, the biological father has every right and responsibility to the child.

I would be very upset if some one was hiding a child of mine from me. I would demand to have a paternity test done.

There is always Maury.

I agree with every word you said. you put it in perfect context.

Although, just like Makoto had said...the biological has the right.

all he is,is a sperm donor of course I get what your saying though.

He maybe a sperm donor, but there are many many men out there that feel more than that. If I had a child out there I would want to know, and be apart of his/hers life. Not only that, I have a right to be apart of my child's life.

Next any woman who thinks the biologica father is JUST a sperm donor should leave it at that. If they are going to treat the biological fathers as nothing more than meat, then they(the mothers) should not go around demanding money and support from the fathers. You can not have it both ways. "You are nothing but a sperm donor, you can not call the baby yours. But where's my money????" Sorry that is just wrong.

If I had one, I would want to know as well.
Not to be disrespectful to the women on ehealth, but surely most women don't know how it is to be deprived of money when they don't even know who that baby belongs to. I'm sorry but I agree fully with Makoto.

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just leave it, in case there are similar problems with other posters.

I can see where your coming from with that.if it was the other way around I would feel the way you are talking.many women don't look at it like that.

Mellisa, I like you.

you like me so much you misspelled my name!lmao! jj It's ok,lots of people do it

Really?I thought you hated me!

Just for the record, I'm a sperm donor also. Active. I'm just sayin'!

your a sperm donor?in your words or the womans?

Just because we disagree alot does not mean anything personal. I respect the fact you are trying to help.