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Q: I Just Don't Understand This....

asked by: *star* on April 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I just found out from a friend of mine that someone she knows is pregnant again. She has one child and is not married, and not with the father. She is getting an abortion with the baby she is pregnant with now. The part that makes me mad is that this is her 8th pregnancy!!!! .W.H.A.T???? I am having a hard enough time getting pregnant with one child and this girl has already killed 6 babies and about to abort her 7th. At what point would you wake up and realize - hey I might want to protect myself next time I decide to go sleeping around. What makes this story even worse is that they are all by different men. People like that should be forced to become steril or something. She isn't on birth control and chooses not to get on it. I don't know I would have to say that I would be running to the doctors after I got pregnant with the first unwanted child let alone 7 unwanted children.

Urggggg this makes me sooo mad.

Sorry I had to get that out

Replies(9)

mc4ever02

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

That is seriously frustrating. I am upset with you. It really does seem like the people who deserve it least seem to be the one to get pregnant easiest. I feel for you!

*star*

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

mc4ever02 wrote:

That is seriously frustrating. I am upset with you. It really does seem like the people who deserve it least seem to be the one to get pregnant easiest. I feel for you!

Sorry Mc, I had to read that like 3 times. I really thought you were saying you were mad at me. I was like - what the flip???

I can only imagine if this girl would have been forced to have those babies. She would have never been able to handle that. She is real young to. I think after all these abortions, she would have a hard time actually going full term with a "wanted" baby.

mc4ever02

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Sorry, I guess I really didn't read that through someone else's eyes. Laughing

I should have said that I am as upest as you are with the situation.

Dannzibelle

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Supporter

Gah this really annoys me too, i mean if you don't want to get pregnant then there is a little thing called contraception

*star*

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Dannzibelle wrote:

Gah this really annoys me too, i mean if you don't want to get pregnant then there is a little thing called contraception

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I know it irks the h*ll out of me. First of all why would you do that to your body in the first place. This is just as bad if not worse than taking the morning after pill repetitively just because you can't be responsible and use protection to not get pregnant. They obviously don't want to have kids.

Volaremos

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Experienced User

I feel for you star. i so hate ppl having unprotected sex to end up getting preg & having abortions.
its so frustrating.

littlesqueaks

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Experienced User

I think that carma will one day come around and bite her in the butt. Your day will come be patient it will happen when you least expect it.

babeez

replied on April 11th, 2007

New User

I'm with you...there is a girl I work with that got married 3 months before me...she was pregnant when she got married...she knows my husband and I have been tryying to get pregnant and she keeps telling me that we shoudln't cause her and her husband wish they waited two years. i cannot fathom someone wishing their beautiful baby boy wasn't around...it makes me so angry to know that while peopel like us struggle to have a baby, there are people like that, that don't want/appreciate the life they created. So unfair...on another note..if I hear "just relax and stop trying and it will happen" or "it will happen when it's meant to happen" one mroe time I'm going to kill someone.

PrincessRed

replied on April 11th, 2007

New User

I know the feelig of being told to many times...it will happen...just be patient...you get tired of hearing it and tired of waiting. I have a friend who a few years ago got pregnant and aborted it...only to be pregnant again 3 months later and KEEP IT!!! It made me so mad that we haven't spoken to them since!!

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