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can u have an orgasam without cumming
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Yes yesss, this happens to me.
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Re: Orgasams
mcauley4828 wrote:
can u have an orgasam without cumming


Well this is a complicated question.

With females, "orgasm" and "coming/cumming" are the same thing. Most women do not have an ejaculation (cum) that comes with their orgasm. So with a female, it's a moot point. "Coming" and "orgasming" for a woman is the same thing, unless she's in the 5% of women who squirt. So the asnwer for women is: The majority of Females don't "cum" so they always orgasm without cumming... that is, they orgasm without the physical act of ejaculation.

Now for men, orgasm almost always comes with an ejaculation (cum). When males are young, before puberty, they often orgasm without "cumming" because they cannot yet physically ejaculate. Once they hit puberty, the only way to expereince a full, completely satisfying orgasm is to ejaculate (cum) along with it. Preventing ejaculation can lead to prostate blockage. SO for men, yes, they can orgasm without "cumming" but it is neither healthy nor satisfying.
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Question: when i orgasm, i get like an extra rush of stuff down there, and afterwards there's basically loads of it but it doesn't like shoot out like a man's, so is this cumming? Or is this just what happens?
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Lion79 wrote:
Question: when i orgasm, i get like an extra rush of stuff down there, and afterwards there's basically loads of it but it doesn't like shoot out like a man's, so is this cumming? Or is this just what happens?


Is it a clear liquid, or is it more like a large amound of vaginal discharge?
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Yeah it's clear, I think lol it's a different consistency as well
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replied April 3rd, 2007
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Lion79 wrote:
Yeah it's clear, I think lol it's a different consistency as well


If it is a clear, water-like substance that doesn't smell like urine, then congradulations, you're among the 5-15% of women who can female-ejaculate Wink
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replied December 27th, 2011
does getting wet down called ejaculating??
its not a urine but its sticky
is this ejaculating??
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replied December 29th, 2011
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It is normal to get wet. There are all sorts of fluids that come out when you get sexually aroused and when you orgasm.

Not all wetness are ejaculate.
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replied April 4th, 2007
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WOW! Exclamation

lol
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replied September 9th, 2008
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hi every1. i really hope some1 can help me. iv never had an orgasam???
is it down to me or is it the men??

iv read alot of diffrent things and tryed diffrent things but nothing is helping Sad im 23 yrs old and been sexually active since i was 16. iv als tryed a rabbit which is ment to garanty but still no orgasam with that either! i am missing out lol and am starting to think something is wrong with me, i would appreciate any help and advice

many thanks hayley
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replied January 14th, 2009
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there is no reason to worry about having an orgasm, or cumming, just yet.

my mum was on her second husband and 4th child before she had her first orgasm, you just need to know your body, the better you know your body, and your partners body, the better sex becomes.

my older sister had an orgasm the 3rd time she had sex. it took me until my 3rd partner to finally figure out my body, now i have to put a towel down before i decide to have sex, or i am forever changing the sheets.

i also experimented with another man while with my 3rd partner, the 4th man i had sex with, was no where near as good as it was with my partner.

i knew how to work my body, but because i didn't know how his body worked, it wasn't good sex at all. it was awkward and i just sat there thinking about my partner, wondering why i decided to do this.

everyone is different, i have a male friend who can only orgasm when he is on top in the missonary position, and a female friend who can only orgasm when she is being done doggy style.

the key to a good sex life is communication.

if your having sex with them, than you should be able to ask them what they like, and tell them what you like.

if your unable to talk openly with the person you have having sex with, than you have to reconsider where your life is taking you.

sex is great, the purpose of sex is to create new life (that and it feels great) if you having sex with someone, than you should always consider the possibility of creating a child with them,

if you have not considered that, than you should reconsider having sex with them.

sex has many powerful emotions attached to it, so pick your partners carefully, that decision should not be taken lightly.

just be open, happy, healthy and enjoy life.
it's not the end of the world if you don't orgasm!

life is short just enjoy it!!!!
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replied February 3rd, 2009
hi everyone i dont really know what a orgasm feels like...can someone tell me how it feel so i know if i m having an orgasm or not
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replied February 5th, 2009
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i never had an orgasam during sex or masturbation
had it once looking at some porn that's it. whats wrong with me...now ive got a new boyfriend and hes coming to stay with me in the summer and im worried about this... i feel like a failure...i mean im always horney all the time have insane creative sex but i just dont orgasam...
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replied February 26th, 2009
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Hello everyone. When I cum during oral sex or masterbating a clear liquid comes out but it smell's like urine. How can i tell the differance between sqirting and urine
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replied February 26th, 2009
strong odor after me an my boyfriend have sex
when me an my boyfriend get done having sex i have a strong odor.wut could that possibile be?
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replied February 27th, 2009
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Could be from the semen, do this happen when you use condoms?

It could be an infection or could be caused by some poor eating habits .
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replied September 7th, 2013
So I'm not sure if I've orgasmed yet. A lot of people tell me that I'll for sure know if I had one. I've also looked and tried to learn more about what it's like to orgasm. What happens is I usually get ready to have one and I'll sometimes get a second of relaxation but then literally a second later it's back to contractions and intense breathing which makes me think I haven't orgasmed.....there is also no cum or squirting and only a very small amount of wetness.

Thanks!
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replied September 7th, 2013
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It sounds like you are having multiple orgasms. Most women are capable of just having another orgasm if they keep on the stimulation. These orgasms will normally get better and better until they start to weaken and disappear or get uncomfortable.

Arousal and build up is the build up of tension in your genital and pelvic muscles. This will continiue to build and build, getting to a level where you just want it to release. You may get several false starts where you can shake and contract a few times, but continiue to build. Then your clitoris and genitals may begin to feel electric and magical, and your brain gets overwhelmed with the stimulation and 'trip' to let your body release the tension in waves of contractions, heat and pleasure radiating out from your genitals. You may loose control during this, shaking, making sounds, grabbing moving your pelvis uncontrollably.

Then you will calm down and feel happy, relaxed and 'glowing', with your breathing and heart rate returning to normal.

Squirting, gushing or ejaculation may or may not be a part of this. Most women only feel a little bit wetter. The minority of women will emit a liquid during orgasm. So do not measure your orgasm by that, or feel that you have to release a fluid.
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replied September 8th, 2013
thanks so
your reply was the best which based on an experience that my partner have so
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