nightangel73
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Need to Vent
Posted: 04-02-07 22:57pm
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I am broken hearted.....
To make the story short I have been trying
so hard to change my job so i could have
my dream job for so many years but i'm
beginning to realize now that my dream job
is just something i won't be able to have
ever. I studied the wrong bachelor degree
and when I tried to fix it and went back
again to school and get another degree in
what i wanted it's now too late. I have
done everything on my power. I have more
education degrees than all the people that
have the jobs that i want but they don't
wouldn't give an opportunity. At work it's
like people just don't want that you
succeed. I have wondered if it is that
they get intimated with people that have
too much education you know like if they
are afraid that you are going to take
their jobs. Then there is several
coworkers that want the job I want to have
and their qualifications are not even
close to mine. But they have been longer
in the company, some their jobs are on the
line (company is going to lay them off in
a few months) so they try to make me look
bad since I'm the one with the highest
qualifications. I can't take it anymore.
I'm going to get married in october and I
want to enjoy my new husband and have
babies and enjoy my new family. If there
is little strenght left I know when I have
babies I won't be up to go on and continue
studying. So this is why i'm hanging the
gloves now. I just wished i had my dream
(computer) job. I am broken hearted...
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littlesqueaks
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Posted: 04-02-07 23:58pm
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Don't give up thats what they want you to
do!! You need to put yourself a head of
them and prove to the company what you can
and will provide for them. Don't let
others stand in your way of your dreams
and push you down in a lower status
because they "think" that they can. You
know you have it so go get it. Lift your
chin and your shoulders show your
confidence and go to the top of the food
chain (LOL) Don't rely on the under takers
and go straight to the source of who will
help you accomplish the goals and dreams
that you want. The "important" people in
your job will see your enthusiasm, skill,
and goal orientated person that you are
and place you where you should be. But if
you give up to easily they will see that
instead and you don't want that. Your a
women hear you roar!!!! ISn't that how the
saying goes. Go for it it's never to late
unless you give up don't give up!!!!!
Just a word of advice from a stranger who
has been through the marriage and kid
thing already and is trying to reach for
the top a little to late in life but I am
still going to keep climbing. You are in a
perfect situation to get where you want to
be before having kids so go for it.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-03-07 13:59pm
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hey angel! It sounds to me like you are
very smart and do have all the
qualifications.I didn't read he first post
but it sounds to me like they don't want
to pay you what you deserve so they give
the job to someone less qualified so they
don't have to pay as much.I'm sorry about
your luck deary and I hope things get
better for you.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-03-07 17:35pm
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I have been depressed today about it. I am
really not a person that gives up easily.
I have been fighting for this dream for
many years (about 7 years). I have learned
that not only one has to be qualified but
one needs the experience (which is
impossible to have when no one gives you
the opportunity) and one needs to be in
the right place at the right time. You
need luck too. And look, the director of
my dept bless her heart, she really wants
to help me achieve my dream. Well a couple
months ago there was a posting a great
opportunity and she told me to apply for
it because she was going to help me have
it because she was friend of the hiring
manager. Well can you believe that the
hiring manager quitted the company and
left shortly after? The position then got
frozen. It's like i am not meant to have
this kind of job.
At least I can say I did tried everything
to get what i wanted even if I didn't get
it in the end. Since i still have a year
before i have a baby (if god give me one
of those) I can try one last course.
Something that at least can make more
money of what i make and that is not
totally disgusting.
I really hate to feel i'm stuck guys. I
hate this feeling of there is something
that i want and there is nothing i can do
about it.
Thanks for letting me vent and thank for
the advice
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-04-07 08:24am
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no problem,anytime!
hey,you never know if something else is
going to come up better than what you
thought.I use to work at an assembly
factory,and got a job at a different well
know one everyone wanted to work at.well I
didn't like it there and stayed at my old
job (even thougth I thought I was gonna
get fired).well I did get fired and 2
weeks later I got hired at a job that
payede almost $2 more than the other!
things happen for a reason!
I hope that wasn't too confusing! lol
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-04-07 17:49pm
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You know guys I have changed my mind. I am
not going to give up! To hell with those m
f ckers. I want to have an IT job and no
one will stop me. Sorry guys I think that
it might have been the hormones from the
pill that put me in that depressed mood
lol. I'm going to finish my dba
certificate and after that I'm going for
that green belt certification and I think
that will do it. My fiance told me he
would totally support me and that he would
cook and clean so i have enough time to
study (he is so sweet!)
god how did i say i was going to give up,
wonder what mosquito bit me. hehe
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littlesqueaks
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Posted: 04-04-07 21:56pm
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Good for you!! You can do it and you
diserve to get the job of your dreams!!!
Go all the way and try not to let those
F***ers get in you way!!
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-05-07 07:43am
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yay for you! i'm glad your spirit has
changed.hey,we all have our moments!
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DPantelones
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Posted: 04-05-07 17:03pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | You know guys I have changed
my mind. I am not going to give up! To
hell with those m f ckers. I want to have
an IT job and no one will stop me. Sorry
guys I think that it might have been the
hormones from the pill that put me in that
depressed mood lol. I'm going to finish my
dba certificate and after that I'm going
for that green belt certification and I
think that will do it. My fiance told me
he would totally support me and that he
would cook and clean so i have enough time
to study (he is so sweet!)
god how did i say i was going to give up,
wonder what mosquito bit me.
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Awesome attitude, go for it and let us
know how it goes too! Best of luck...D
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-05-07 23:38pm
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Thank you all!
I will definetly keep the update 
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nightangel73
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Re: Need to Vent
Posted: 04-10-07 17:50pm
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| RedDelight
wrote: | Damn you puss-bags are
*everywhere*!!! Grow the f*ck up--- do it
if you want it, baby. If you don't have
it-- it's your own damn fault. No one
elses but yours.
You are probably not going to get your
dream job at this rate. Might as well go
for second
best. |
lol
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nightangel73
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Update, Update
Posted: 04-11-07 18:45pm
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Well guess what guys?
Today I had two recruiting companies
calling me about a job offer that came
out, a fantastic opportunity and yes it's
a computer job woohooo!! Not only the job
is good but the company omg is the
equivalent to Microsoft or IBM but in the
pharmaceutical world. It's a temporary
contract offer which that still works for
me because this is a foot in the door for
a company that everybody would die to work
for. Not only that would look awesome in
my resume but that's enough time to make
the contacts which I'm very good at and
get quality experience and the title that
I need so I can move forward. And it's a
whole more money too! It is almost
certain I will get interviewed but yet I
still have to pass the interviews so guys
wish me luck and pray for me!
wow..
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BridgetC87
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Posted: 04-11-07 18:52pm
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reddelight, you are very rude. do you
really think it is necessary to talk that
way to people? if you have nothing nice or
supportive to say, maybe you shouldn't say
anything at all!
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-11-07 18:56pm
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| BridgetC87
wrote: | | reddelight, you are very
rude. do you really think it is necessary
to talk that way to people? if you have
nothing nice or supportive to say, maybe
you shouldn't say anything at
all! |
Don't worry bridget I don't take things
written online personally.
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BridgetC87
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Posted: 04-11-07 23:23pm
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it is just really getting on my nerves! i
normally i do not either, but this is
supposed to be a site to get help and
advice, and the particular person only has
mean and rude things to say.
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 04-12-07 07:26am
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| BridgetC87
wrote: | | it is just really getting on
my nerves! i normally i do not either, but
this is supposed to be a site to get help
and advice, and the particular person only
has mean and rude things to
say. |
you know what?I really think someone
hacked into her account.she is a very good
friend of mine and she would never talk
this nasty to someone.yes she is sarcastic
but never like this.I'm actually worried
abouther because she hasn't returned any
phone calls or pm's,so I honestly think
its not her and there is something wrong.I
hope everything is ok. 
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