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BeautifulLiesx3

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Boyfriend Can't Seem to "finish" =/
Posted: 04-02-07 22:38pm
I feel pretty bad actually.

My boyfriend is a virgin, and we haven't had sex yet but we've decided we're going to in the future. But we do other stuff right now and I feel bad because he can always give me an orgasm but I can't ever get him to finish ... i've tried lots of stuff but I don't know what to do. I suggested that he masturbate and see what he likes and then tell me, and he tried but he said he couldn't get himself to do it either ... i've never heard of this before. Can anyone give me advice?
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Re: Boyfriend Can't Seem to "finish" =/
Posted: 04-02-07 22:57pm
BeautifulLiesx3 wrote:
I feel pretty bad actually.

My boyfriend is a virgin, and we haven't had sex yet but we've decided we're going to in the future. But we do other stuff right now and I feel bad because he can always give me an orgasm but I can't ever get him to finish ... i've tried lots of stuff but I don't know what to do. I suggested that he masturbate and see what he likes and then tell me, and he tried but he said he couldn't get himself to do it either ... i've never heard of this before. Can anyone give me advice?


He is clearly nervous about finishing around you; and considering he's a virgin, I'm not surprised. This isn't a physical condition or a serious mental one; he's just nervous! Give the boy some love, some patience, and maybe don't make his orgasm the highlight of your sexual encounters. Just do what you've done, but let yourselves focus on you. If he gets excited enough about you and your pleasure, he will relax and eventualy be comfortable enough to orgasm around you.
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BeautifulLiesx3

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Posted: 04-03-07 08:17am
=) Mmkay, thank you. Yeah I told him not to worry so much about me that I wanted to make him happy too.
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