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Q: What Should I Do?
asked by: JillMarie on February 17th, 2004
Extremely eHealthy
Okay jesse's sister is vanessa. She is 15 and we all know she's not a virgin. She told me and jesse once she's been with 6 guys, which I think is a lot for a 15 year old. Well today I was cleaning and hidden in the couch cushions is a list of people she'd been with. It's 16 people!! Shocked okay i'm hoping i'm not offending anyone here but at 15 that is way too many people! What should I do? Should I tell her mom what? Me and vanessa are really good friends so I dont want to break her trust.
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nikki_caro
replied on February 17th, 2004
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I think you should talk to her! That is way too many! Oh my gosh! Are you sure thats not how many shes only kissed?? Talk to her or her mom, then tie her legs shut...Hehehe. She is going to risk pregnancy that way
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CrombieChic16
replied on February 17th, 2004
Active User, very eHealthy
Hey jill,
if I were in your shoes I would most definitely sit his sister down and talk to her about it in private....Don't lash out on her or make her feel like she's a little girl who doesn't know any better...Treat her like an adult and maturely ask her why she feels like she has to be with so many people...Ask her if she wants to end up being pregnant by a guy who she was with for one night and never hear from him again...Point out all the risks that come with multiple sex partners(intercourse or not)....Stds, aids, pregnancy...She's still young, she can still direct her life in the way she wants...And i'm sure she doesn't wanna be stuck at home with a crying baby while her friends are out at the movies hooking up with the *cutest boys*....She's 15, so what, she's a soph in highschool? Damn that was only last year for me....And yep I was out at the movies, hooking up, parties, drinking, having the best time ever....I'm sure she doesn't wanna give that up...I know I have absolutely no problem *growing up so soon* because being a mom has always been such a dream for me, maybe not this soon, but i'm thankful I can even have kids....I should become a motivational speaker lol I have so much to say about this stuff...But point is, however you approach this, make sure you do it in an adult manner..Or she'll shut you out...Be calm and chill about it, but alert....And i'm sure she'll respond positively....Best of luck girl...Let me know how it goes!

Much love,
nessa & peanut
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kitty_55
replied on February 17th, 2004
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Hey,

if it is true about jesses sister you should sit her down and talk to her about it..Dont yell or get mad at her. If it is true get ehr on some birth control and buy her condoms!!!!!!
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sparklypixie12
replied on February 17th, 2004
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Oh my lord-she needs a good talking too.That slutty-im sorry but thats just what I think
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smith8500
replied on February 17th, 2004
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Hey
Well, I wouldnt' say talk to her mother yet. I would talk to her... Dont' make her feel like a child. Hell, make her watch she's too young on lifetime! Lol. It'll get the message across! This is a serious issue someone needs to talk about with her. I am 17 and i've only been with the 1 guy I am with now...
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JillMarie
replied on February 17th, 2004
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She actually wants a baby. I always tell her how hard it is and everything but she says that she dont care and that she is jealous of me for being pregnant. I've taken her to get pregnancy tests and get on birth control but she wont use it,i gave her condoms she wont use them either. I'm going to talk to her about it.

Yeah I know it's all the guys she's been with cause I know of several guys she's kissed that were not on there and every guy she told me she had been with was, plus a few.
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Jaydensmommy
replied on February 18th, 2004
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Make her take care of your kids for a few days and dont help her at all! See how she feels about it then.

~sara~
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