Broken Hearted Forum - Ldr Ended And I Dont Know Why

my ex-b/f and i were together for about 1 year. i met him in germany because he was stationed here. in june 06 he had to go back to the states but signed up again for germany. he will be back in july 09.

i hadn't seen him since he left and we planned a visit over christmas and new years. we both were very excited. he became very needy 2 months before my visit and we both couldn't wait to see each other.

but out of the blue he stopped talking to me 2 weeks before my visit!!!
he hasn't picked up the phone neither replied to any of my e-mails!

I flew anyways... he wasn't there. his mom picked me up and I spent my supposily visit at his parents house. they took good care of me. we had a very bonding and fun time together...

they havent heard frm their son neither and couldnt get a hold of him. he didnt call any of them for christmas and didnt show up at all.

nobody knew and still doesnt know whats going on.

that was along time ago but i cant get over him. i know he loved me more than anything. his mom said that, too. she doesnt understand either.

what can i do?

Replies(4)

change is good

replied on April 2nd, 2007

Experienced User

there isn't much you can do except try to move on. when most relationships end, at least one of the couple is left with questions. we never get the answers we need and eventually we move on. try spending more time with friends and family. do new things. his memory will slowly fade. when you're ready you'll move on.
best of luck

Willa Weintraub

replied on April 2nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

have they really not heard from him at all?has anyone heard from him?what if something bad has happened?what if he went somewhere else for his job?what if he went a-wall?thre are so any questions and his dissapearance might not have anything to do with your relationship hun.

wicky1986

replied on April 3rd, 2007

New User

well. that was christmas 06! they have heard from him by now...
he has to go to iraq in may and is busy with training i guess.
anyway.
so he is fine.

but can someone change his mind within one day? thats what confuses me alot. it was all fine and the other day he stopped talking to me and most of his friends. and he calls his family not as often as he used to...

change is good

replied on April 3rd, 2007

Experienced User

it sounds like going to iraq may have alot to do with it. i am sure he is under a lot of stress. give him some time and space.

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