why do you have unprotected sex if you don't want a baby?

wait a few days and take a pregnancy test, you could very well be pregnant if you have been having unprotected sex.

and next time please invest in some birth control.

even if he doesnt cum in you is that still bad? i know like you still can get pregnet if he doesnt? but like i dont really feel any different?

yes you can still get pregnant if he doesn't cum inside of you, it's called precum and it contains sperm from his last 'load'

next time you have sex please, please use birth control.

how old are you?

i am 16....
i took a test yesterday but it was negative? should i just like wait a few days? because i know spotting doesnt always mean your pregnet....but i dont know what else it could be

Well your period was due last saturday right? that's almost a week late...

I guess wait a little longer and take another test, it takes some people longer to get a positive result if they are pregnant, if you still don't get your period after that you should probably go to the doctor and see about a blood test?

my mom would kill meeeeeeee
im usually never late so thats why im like freaking out...i dont know i asked my cousin cause shes the one that told me what spittong was and she told me that it could be different things but she said she really doesnt know

well don't tell your mom... right now at least. go to planned parenthood (they can do tests for you right guys?) and they won't tell your parents anything. but if you are pregnant you need to be prepared to tell your parents, it might seem like the end of the world but its not hun, not speaking from personal experience but there are lots of great girls on here that'll tell you the same thing.

but please please please, if you aren't pregnant, use this as a lesson ok? while you're at planned parenthood get on the pill and get some condoms on your way out!

could that still have counted for my period? cause ive never had that before so like it was weird? could it be something else? like bad else?

some people have spotting when they're pregnant. when i first had sex it really messed up my cycles, i was 5 days late and i started spotting, i thought for sure i was pregnant but my period ended up coming.

i know its hard but you need to stop worrying, haha i know that sounds silly. but since you've been stressing it's probably causing your period to be delayed. (eh?)

it could be because you might be pregnant... so i really think you should wait a few more days, test and if it still comes out neg then go to the doctor, there's nothing else that we can tell you here hun. but you can stick around and give us updates.