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rinsha
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We live at his mom's house. {we both still very young}, and she likes us living here. We both love living here.
The only problem is my ex lives down the road. The street over from us. Me & him broke up over 6 months ago. We had dated for over 3 years, and he TRIED to be abusive, so I left him.
Threw out the 3 years, if we had broken up or I had left he always tried to stop me, or follow me, and he would ride past where every I was living at all times during the day/night. I knew it was going to be a horrible break up. So I moved outside of town to get away from him, and I lost all contact with most of my friends to recover. My husband was there for me the whole time {being very supportive}.
I moved back into town about 2 months ago. Once I decided to move back into town, I knew my EX was going to figure out where I was and was going to start riding past my house. Thats exactly what happened. He also started dating my cousin.
So now, during the day and all hours of the night, they ride past my house. He has a very loud radio, and he loves to play it very loud with his windows down. I know I shouldn't pay it any attention, and I try not to, I should just ignore it, but its very stressful. I could probably ignore it, if it wasn't an everyday thing. I mean sometimes he wakes me up at 2 and 3 oclock in the morning. I know exactly who it is, and I believe I wake up still because when we were together and I'd leave and he'd ride past where I was it used to scare me. So its kind of like an instinct to wake up.
I mean is it me or does he sound like he seriously has some problems? I am married now, and I wish he'd just leave me alone. I have a stomach ulcer and since me him ended it has been doing really well. I have gained weight, I can eat and not get sick. I am very happy. But him doing this really gets me stressed out, and I know there is nothing I can do about it.
My mother-in-law works for the sheriff's office and is trying all she can to stop the him, but its going to take time. & my husband doesn't really know how much it stresses me out, and I really don't want him to worry.
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Makoto
Experienced User
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rinsha
Experienced User
yeah, my brother thought of that but what's the point ya know? If he actually did that to his tires, {my ex} would just get new ones, and be even more annoying.
Yeah, my cousin and him date. Sometimes she is the one driving. {its pretty sad}. They both just stare at the house or who ever is outside, and laugh.
Yesterday we actually had 5 separate encounters with him. The first was when my mother-in-law was leaving from her lunch break to go back to work. {she was in her undercover cop car} leaving and she saw him. When he noticed it was her, he slowed way down, and turned his radio off.
He ended up riding past here two more times yesterday while everyone was at work. My 4 year old brother-in-law notices everytime he comes by.
Then, the one that Pi$$ed me off the most was when my husband was leaving from his lunch break to go back to work. He was behind a car that was behind my Ex. Well the car ended up turning so my husband was behind him. So he slowed way down to keep from being to close to him {knowing the crap my Ex pulls}. Well, of course my ex had to start hitting his breaks, when there wasn't a car infront of him. Trying to make my husband rear end him.
The last time was last night. We were looking at apartments that are a few blocks from where we live. We were thinking of staying close to my mother-in-laws home, because we are ttc and we wanted to stay around the neighborhood. Well we changed our minds last night instantly. We were turning on our street, and I told my husband that he was coming up the road. He passes us, and starts driving all over the road and yelling and screaming out the windows. He had a car full of people and they were all doing this.
It's so irritating, you'd think a 20 year old would act alittle more mature than this. But obviously not.
I am going to the court house Monday and talking to someone about a 500 foot restraining order. Maybe that will keep his a$$ from riding up and down this street at all hours of the night.
Yeah, my cousin and him date. Sometimes she is the one driving. {its pretty sad}. They both just stare at the house or who ever is outside, and laugh.
Yesterday we actually had 5 separate encounters with him. The first was when my mother-in-law was leaving from her lunch break to go back to work. {she was in her undercover cop car} leaving and she saw him. When he noticed it was her, he slowed way down, and turned his radio off.
He ended up riding past here two more times yesterday while everyone was at work. My 4 year old brother-in-law notices everytime he comes by.
Then, the one that Pi$$ed me off the most was when my husband was leaving from his lunch break to go back to work. He was behind a car that was behind my Ex. Well the car ended up turning so my husband was behind him. So he slowed way down to keep from being to close to him {knowing the crap my Ex pulls}. Well, of course my ex had to start hitting his breaks, when there wasn't a car infront of him. Trying to make my husband rear end him.
The last time was last night. We were looking at apartments that are a few blocks from where we live. We were thinking of staying close to my mother-in-laws home, because we are ttc and we wanted to stay around the neighborhood. Well we changed our minds last night instantly. We were turning on our street, and I told my husband that he was coming up the road. He passes us, and starts driving all over the road and yelling and screaming out the windows. He had a car full of people and they were all doing this.
It's so irritating, you'd think a 20 year old would act alittle more mature than this. But obviously not.
I am going to the court house Monday and talking to someone about a 500 foot restraining order. Maybe that will keep his a$$ from riding up and down this street at all hours of the night.
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