Any advice on what I should do when he gets "pissy" or condescending? I can't not ask "the wrong" questions or say "dorky" things because I have not idea what those are until after he's been rude. My reactions -- tears, anger, insults (lately, I've been such a jerk back) or general sensitivity have just made him more frustrated, rude and condescending. I can't even physically walk away because it makes him more angry. I really feel stuck.