Hello, I am new to posting. I read some of the posts on here and just wanted some feedback. My husband and I have decided that we would like to start our journey to parenthood. I got off the pill in nov. I thought I was pregnant once since nov, but I was still adjusting to being off of the pill. I am still trying to get my cycle figured out, but not always so easy. I think I narrowed my fertile days this month. If I am correct it was 10-14. We tried the 11-13th. I am not expecting my AF until the 28th, but like I said... im still trying to get the cycle days correct since being off the pill. OK... so here it is I have been feeling very light cramps since the 19th on and off. Tonight I have been feeling light headed and I feel a flutter feeling in my lower abdomen. My lower back has been bothering me quite a bit. The problem is I also have a cold so its hard to tell whats what. Something just feels different. I havent had any soreness in my bb, but then again I usually dont during pms anyway. Honestly I dont usually feel anything before pms but a small amount of cramping a few days before. Sorry this is a novel, but I also feel like its just wishful thinking and this head cold has taken over whatever it is I am feeling. I know its too early to test... it just sucks not knowing.