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Q: Bad Bad Bad Bad Bad News :(

asked by: justtryintogetprego on March 22nd, 2007

New User

so i went to the obgyn yesterday to have my ultrasound and when the doctor was looking he could no longer find the baby. I lost the baby. I was 8 weeks and 2 days!! I've been crying since yesterday afternoon. I feel like my life is over. I never thought this would happen. And the thing thats even worse is right before they took me in for my ultrasound they has us looking at all these baby models and she showed me what my baby looked like. I dont think this pain will ever go away. I have to go have surgery to remove everything that is still up there since i didnt get my period. We have been waiting for so long and it happend. Now its gone. I thought i did everything right. Sad

Replies(7)

mamaTT

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Crying or Very sad

AyaMiyaki

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I'm sorry for your loss. Sad

.I'm going to move this to the .miscarriage forum - but a shadow will be left here so people will still see it.

Take care, hon. We're here for you.

tululabell

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

hey, you didn't do anything wrong. i know it can feel that way now but it isn't your fault. i went over every little thing that i did trying to pinpoint why i m/c and when it came down to it, there was just something wrong.
it hurts a lot right now but you will feel better eventually. i don't think i will ever forget or be 100% over my m/c but i can talk about it and i am fine.
just cry and grieve how ever you want. it is a very sad and hard thing to go through and if you ever need to just health forum or have questions feel free to pm me! i felt so alone when i m/c i would hate for others to feel that way.

monkeygirl22

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I am so sorry! I just had a miscarriage this week as well. I was only four weeks along and had just found out but it still hurts. I went through some of these same feelings. If you ever need to talk just pm me.

Amber*Marie

replied on March 23rd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Im so sorry! I have been there and I know how you feel. If you ever need to talk, you can PM me!

Bridget

replied on March 23rd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

i'm so so sorry. it's such a horrible thing to have to go through and unfortunately it's pretty common. it was nothing you did and there's nothing you could have done so don't blame yourself!

try not to stress over the surgery, it's a very simple procedure and you'll be asleep.

feel free to pm me if you need to talk.

mommyandwifey1211

replied on September 13th, 2008

Experienced User

im so sorry to hear about your loss

it will get better in time

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