I am a female, but I will throw some information out there just the same. One thing that a lot of people don't know is that the vagina gets a lot bigger when a woman is in the mood. So the same woman might feel tight during one sexual encounter, loose the next, and tight the next, just based on how in the mood she was.

i never questioned wether or not they had a lot of sex or not. i can think of two women specifically and both have to do with children. my first wife was tight and then after vaginal childbirth she was loose and the tightness never came back. the second is my current wife and although she has 3 children, at 43 she is still very tight because all three were c-section. never stuck around long enough with anyone else to find out if the had a lot of sex or not
hope this helps.

huh!!! ok, i was just wondering,

i haven't pushed a baby thru mine....and was with the same guy for 7 years before he passed away, the norm for us was 4 times a week....so ummm i don't know. I guess i could be tight to one and loose to another....but hell i dont' know and i am not too into asking after sex...so dear, was that tight enough for you. lol

anyway, ok thanks, anyone else?

my ex made a comment to me once that I was tighter than usual and I have never heard a complaint out of him! lol I know the more I have sex it does get a little looser obviously but if you go with out for a few days its back to normal! some women are naturally loose too. . .

okay, cool....i guess i kinda sorta got my answer.


so mel what you are saying is that it's like an butthole???

More sex or large toys will cause, over a long period of time with much use, the vagina to loosen, just like giving brith will do it.

The same thing can happen to the anus with anal sex.

This is the reason that some women buy tightening creams, or even have an operation that "re-virginizes" them by tightening the vagina.

Yes, more sex makes you looser. it doesn't make you tighter. Your vagina is like a rubber band: it will snap back to tight, but if you over use it or force something very large through it, you weaken the stretchiness and it looses the tightness.

I think you just wanted to say butthole! lol

but yeah,I guess thats what i'm saying!

Yeah, I must say I don't think that having a lot of sex really effects the size or anything. As pointed out above, in times of arousal the vagina is meant to increase in size to aid intercourse. If anything, frequent sex may make it a little less sensitive (in terms of the initial penetration) for some women, but maybe not I can't say I know from experience. Also, it's pretty much a known fact that if you wait a really, really long time to have sex it will get tighter, but only initially.

uuummm who complaned about the filter???

If you use the proper words you don't have to worry about the filter

well there was obviously nothing wrong with my word if it wasn't filtered!


ass ass ass ass.see,nothing wrong!

I don't know about this.. i gave birth to a 10 lbs baby, and i am definatly not loose... It was a natural birth, and I did tear. My husband tells me how good I feel, and "tighter" than I was before. He say I eel like a virgin every time.

sam your cute. (dont' know why though)

I have heard some girls say that . that they are tighter after giving birth than they were before.

I don't know though.

I would say as a general rule following the laws of biology and physics that most women will be looser after a lot of sex, heavy use of large toys, or giving birth. There will always be exceptions, but they are not common. There wouldn't be a "virginizing" surgery if most women stayed tight their whole life.