how often should i make luv in a month
with my wife in order to get a baby?
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rooted
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Posted: 03-22-07 05:32am
Well, it's most important to make love
during the time she's ovulating, which is
about 14 days before her next period is
due. During this time, the egg is
released from the ovaries and can be
fertilized. If her menstrual period is
regular, you can predict the date range
and have sex 2-3 times per day 2 days
before and 2 days after she would
ovulate.
Hope it helps!
-Rooted
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sapheroth
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Posted: 03-22-07 05:37am
thanx for yur advise.
her period start from 25th of every month
and remains for abt 29-30 days.so what
would be the ovulating time???i guess 9th
and 10th of the next month....???
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rooted
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Posted: 03-22-07 06:05am
Well, be careful with counting....most
months are not 28 days long.
So, let's say that she bleeds on March
25th....that means that she'll bleed again
between April 22-24. Subtract 14 days,
and you should really aim for sex from
April 6 - April 12....that's a long time,
but I'm sure you kids can have fun...
Also, for an element of intention, maybe
you could try meditating together or
praying together, if that's your
thing...before you perform the act. Not
sure if you're into it, but it could also
help.
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Posted: 03-22-07 15:30pm
rooted
wrote:
If her menstrual period is
regular, you can predict the date range
and have sex 2-3 times per day 2 days
before and 2 days after she would ovulate.
-Rooted
It is not better to have sex 2 to 3 times
a day while trying to conceive. You are
not allowing the sperm to become fully
mature. So really it would be detrimental
to you because the fully mature sperm have
the best chance with meeting up with the
egg. Smaller weaker sperm will not have
such a good chance.
sapheroth
wrote:
her period start from 25th of every month
and remains for abt 29-30 days.so what
would be the ovulating time???i guess 9th
and 10th of the next
month....???
Does she really bleed for 29 or 30 days,
or are you saying that is her cycle
length? If she knows when she will be
starting her period then just count back
14 days.
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sapheroth
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Posted: 03-23-07 01:21am
sorry i typed wrong...her cycle period is
29-30 days. normaly her period continue
from 6 to 7 days. so would u think i sould
make love from april 6 to 12. should i
make love daily in this period or the
alternate days.
regards
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shortgeek
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Posted: 03-24-07 08:33am
Our doctor said to have sex no frequently
than every other day to ensure full sperm
maturity.
It is also important to try to predict
ovulation. Doctors often suggest using an
ovulation predictor kit, which is
essentially a bunch of test strips for you
wife to pee on once a day. It will be
positive a day or two before ovulation.
The problem is that you are supposed to be
bding before the positive test result, so
you'll still have to figure out when to
start.
The earliest sign is cervical mucus. At
the start of the cycle, the cm camps in
the cervix and keeps sperm from entering
the uteris. It changes from hostile to
sperm to a nutrient base for sperm and
starts to fill the vagina as ovulation
approaches. The best cm for sperm comes
at the most fertile point in the month and
the cm is said to have an "egg-white"
conistency. The consistency is similar to
semen but it is clear. It takes several
months of looking for it to recognize it.
Best of luck!
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inchandonehalf
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Getting Pregnant Posted: 03-24-07 09:09am
The every other day advise is good advise
during the middle of the cycle; however,
take it one more step, do not wear any
drawers/underwear during the time period
starting about two weeks before. This
advise is for you not her. Briefs, if you
wear them, pull the family jewels up too
close to the body and keeps them too warm,
thereby, lowering the swimmer
count...boxers are better but none is even
better + don't wear tight jeans, the same
thing happens. Swing free and loose for
two weeks ahead of the big launch date,
then like already advised, do not fire all
your warheads at one time. 2 or 3 per day,
every other day is a lot better plan. If
both of you need to loose a few pounds,
now is the best time. Studies have shown
that it is easier to conceive while both
of you are losing weight...not starving,
but slightly hungry. Also no B.J.'s, all
baby-batter must go in the same orifice or
it doesn't count. Now, git'ter done!
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sapheroth
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Posted: 05-03-07 23:11pm
finaly my wife is Pregnant
now..........(and i sooooo happy with
this)
thank alot guys....u helped me alot.....
i'll tell all my frinds to consult this
forum abt any kinda prob..
thank again
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 05-04-07 07:39am
Congratulations!!!
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sapheroth
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Posted: 05-05-07 04:33am
one more question
can i still make luv with my wife. how
long should be the gap b/w two sessions.
thanx
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shortgeek
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Posted: 05-05-07 07:00am
Yes, it's fine as long as you are both
physically comfortable. Now, since you
aren't trying to build up mature sperm,
the frequency doesn't matter.
