I don't really like it either but I just do it to please him. If you don't like it just tell him that your not into oral sex. Maybe since it was your first time you'd get more into it later but he should understand that you just don't like it. Talk to him about it and see how he feels.

well i have and he said i dont have to but it make me feel like im not pleasing him and i want him to b happy just like me and we love each other to death! i just wanna fullfill his and my needs!

Well you don't have to do oral sex just to please him. You can just do the one with the hand. Same thing except there's no mouth involved. He can get pleased off that just as much as oral.

thanx alot

The tip to that is to remember to lubricate your hand, with spit. Rolling your hand over the tip of the penis drives my bf insane, so that's always fun

That's why I love oral sex. I get amazing pleasure and at the same time, I can drive him crazy.

I hate oral sex too, my husband loves it, but he asks for it soo much i just almost feel forced into doing it and it makes it not much fun, i know its nice to please your man but mostly thats all it is and getting nothing back, i do try and talk to him about it, most of the time he listens and we do other things so both get something out of it, but asking for it almost daily just gets old and annoying. My husband is the first person ive ever done oral on too, it just seems gross they pee out that hole , i dont like oral on myself either for that same reason it just seems so gross. There are soo many different things that are pleasurable to explore though, i suggest you talk to your guy about trying all sorts of different things, u can find some good sites online as well with different tips etc. Doing the same things all the time is just annoying. Oral just i dunno it tires my mouth out doing it so often.

If the "pee" aspect disgusts you, then you can try oral with flavored condoms for him, and a dental dam for you. A dental dam is similar to a condom, but it is a flat peice of latex or other plastic. Is he grossed out by performing oral on you, or does it just gross you out?

he is fine doing it to me, but i mean i could care less if i got it or not, and seeing that i dont particularly like doing it to him much i never ask for him to do it to me ya know. Its not something im crazy about, he also isnt one to be crazy about condoms. When i first did oral sex with him we used condoms. I think they had spermicide on em or lube or some sort so it was nasty lol but he likes the au naturale feeling . So its hard to come to an agreement and sometimes ends in an argument because i end up not enjoying giving him oral so he gets all mad and says screw it then i feel bad cuz i let him down and hes mad cuz i wasnt in the mood etc .........

Well someone has to draw a line. You have the right to not be forced to do something you don't like; and if he doesn't want to use a flavored condom, then he simply doesn't get oral sex, bottom line.

You boyfriend sounds like a jerk.

i feel you really cuz i dont ask him to do it on me but i dont know i hguess i will try to do dat

I really didnt like it at first either. I just like getting my girlfriend down there kissed. He liked doing it 2 and how many men can you find to do that. When I became abstinant [i think thas how its spelled] i stopped giving oral sex. Now for some reason I miss it ....

i understand. i do that for my boyfriend too.
i didn't really like it but obviously he loved it.
i told him that i didn't like it.
every once and a while i do it for him but if i don't want to or i don't feel like it then i don't and he understands.

so just talk to your boyfriend and tell him you how you feel. and if he doesn't understand then that's not right. just remember that you don't have to do that if you don't want to.

hey me and my partner spoke about silly things like this when we were friends. i told him straight im never doing it.. too many germs for my liking.. and 6 months later still 2getha and still no oral sex. im guessing he doesnt mind that much. he only moans about it once a week now instead of everyday lol

i didnt' know that many people didnt' enjoy oral....

huh!!??

If you are afraid of "germs" then you can simply take a bath/shower together and clean each other's areas first. Then have oral.

my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months, the last time he gave me oral, with out we giving him it at the same time, was 5 months ago, i asked him why he dont do it no more he said because it takes to long! i give him oral all the time but i near get it back only if we do a "69" but sometime i would mind him just doing it to me! i don't know what to do. has anyone got any suggestions??????????!!!!!!!!! please

Well it's something you're going to have to talk to with your boyfriend, and he's going to have to be sensitive to your needs.

my boyfriend thinks i have a problem because i want sex all the time and if i dont get it i start getting frustrated and really stressed out. i really dont know what to do and im afraid my high sex drive might split us up.

Well, if you have a high sex drive that's completely healthy. If he's not man enough to handle you ... ...