I know how you feel my 17 year olf cousin just gave birth and here I am still TTC a she has a precious little life and she doesn't even have a job and i know she didn't take care of herself her entire pregnancy. Then my friend called me and told me she was pregnant and that it was time for her to get her 3rd abortion. I just about lost it with her comment to me. Why do women who want babys have the trouble of concieving? I feel your frustration dear. I just tune them out and try my best to think positive.

Tell me about it. I have this at work who has 4 kids all less than a year apart. Here is the best part, all four have different fathers. This girl, smokes like there is no tomorrow, and never quit during her pregnancy. I really don know!!!!

I know exactly what u mean. There was at least 5 pregnant ladies here at work. When 1 gets prego there has to be at least 4 or 5 more can u believe that (maybe is in the water...). Well out of this ladies 1 is about 3 months, another one is 2 months. One just gave birth to a baby boy. Ok this is where i get mad ok....One of the ones that got pregnant said "I cant have this baby, I already have kids" and GUESS what she had a "miscarriage" I could not believe it. THen the supervisor's asst. also said that she didnt want a baby and also misteriously had a "miscarriage" I just got all angry and sad at the same time, here i am ttc and these girls are just like nothing when they loose the baby. There is one that is ttc also and she did but the "bag" where the baby grows in was not growing so they had to make her have an abortion. She said she has 2 kids already so it wasnt that bad. I dont even take breaks anymore all they do is talk about it or their kids and i feel like i m just there having nothing to say. And like u say why give babies to some that cant take care of them?? Well believe me there is a girl here that has 3 kids going on 4 and they are also different fathers and she is only 24 yrs old. I think the best thing to do when ur ttc is try and keep ur mind busy on other things cause if not the thought of why ur not prego will consume you...I would know. If u find the way to deal PLEASE LET ME KNOW