is this a recent development? is it red?

Have you never touched it before? I think this is normal. When I first touched my head it hurt to. But erm.. I don't see a reason to touch it anyway. However is there redness or anything? You probably just touched you're head.. it's not comfy lol.

No its not red. The only time i touch it is when cleaning. Does it become less sensative or is it just normal?

It's normal don't worry. And no, It wont become less sensitive over time. I recommend you don't touch it to much when you wash. Just rinse it, don't dab it with a cloth or anything that will irritate it.

Ok thank very much.

From what I've heard, it will. many men who have recently cured their tight fore-skins notice the tip is very sensitive. My boyfriend is circumsized and the tip of his penis does not hurt when it is touched.

You can desensitize it to pain, but just do it slowly, gently, try desensitizing the areas around the tip first and work your way up.

I don't see why you would want to desensitize yourself though.

Because it's painful, that's why. He doesn't want to desensitize himself to the pleasure, but to the pain. He doesn't want it to hurt any more. I wouldn't want the tip of my clitoris to be painful either.

Thank you very much Eiri.
I so glad its just normal.
I was very scared but know I feel comfortable with the whole situation.

Oh, one last thing.
If i was to desensitize my penis, how would i go about doing it?