Most women do not orgasm from vaginal sex. If he is disappointed and upset with you about that, maybe he needs to learn a little bit more about sex and human anatomy before he has sex again. Women just don't orgasm as easily as men do.

You can try to find ways to stimulate your clitoris during sex, but even that will not guarantee an orgasm. Some women don't have a sensitive clitoris, so the stimulation does not do much for them. Other women are so sensitive that direct stimulation is actually painful.

Either way, you're by no means abnormal. You're like the majority of other women out there. If he gets upset about that he is either 1. Very uneducated about sex or 2. Just a jerk. Pardon my being blunt. Don't let him get angry with you about it, and don't let him make you think you're doing anything wrong or that there's something wrong with you.

Many women do not orgasm from vaginal sex, let me lay that down right now!

There are two kinds of female orgasms: vaginal and clitoral. The clitoral orgasm results from stimulation of the clitoris, obviously This orgasm is normally quite easy for women to achive - not necessarily fast, but at least simple. Have you ever clitorally orgasmed from masturbation by yourself? Being able to do that is very important.

During vaginal sex, you can still stimulate the clitoris and have a clitoral orgasm; there is no rule against this and it feels really good! It seems your boyfriend isn't very experienced in pleasuring the girl during sex, so you'll have to do it yourself, or ask him to do it. Guide his hand down there Have you ever clitorally orgasmed during foreplay/mutual masturbation/oral sex?

Now a vaginal orgasm happens when the g-spot is stimulated. The g-spot is a rough patch of skin inside the vagina on the front wall, about 2-3 inches inside. A vaginal orgasm may make you feel like you need to pee really bad; this is due to a liquid building up inside the urethra from glands that sit between the g-spot and the urethra. This is not urine! You may or may not have liquid come out when you vaginally orgasm; both are normal.

I have found that doggy style/spooning creates the most pressure against my g-spot, but that's because my bf's penis has a pronouned (but pretty!) downward slope. Depending on the shape of your bf, you being on top or spooning style may work best.

You can also try by yourself with a dildo or your fingers.

I've never been able to vaginally orgasm. I can only feel like I'm getting close when I actually have sex; and only when we're on my bed. I certainly don't want to risk peeing all over my own bed! But I do have powerful clitoral orgasms.

thx, but he doesnt do that, he didnt actually say he was upset but i can tell. he knows alot about sex tho, hes my first but am not his, he has had many partners and all of them have came for him. i just feel upset that i cant do that at all. i dont like to masterbate myself, mostly because im not sure what i shuld really do. i never thought about sex, orgasims and masterbation etc before, but now i think about it alot. i love having the sex with my bf because u feel more connected to him and he says the same thing,(not that we arent close and connected already)
Its not that i want to make him the most satsified but satisfing myself. im still not sure what i should do except try new postions. what are the best postions??

I am glad that he does not tell you he is angry with you or anything like that. Keep in mind that being sexually experienced does not mean the same thing as knowing a lot about sex. Some people have a lot of sex without really knowing much about it. Just having sex does not mean that you know about human anatomy, birth control, fertility, or pregnancy, you know what I mean? So while you do want to communicate with him, keep in mind that he might not know everything. Also keep in mind that women are different. What worked for his partners might not be what works for you.

There's no one magical position that will do it for you. People are a bit different and like things stimulated a bit different, so they tend to like different positions for different reasons. You'll have to experiment and see what works for you guys.

Masturbation might help you to learn a bit about your body and what feels good to you, but only if you're comfortable doing it. There's nothing wrong with masturbating, but there's also nothing wrong with not masturbating.

one important thing when it comes to orgasm is you need to be very relax. You can not be worried about having an orgasm when having sex because then you won't have it. So just not worry about anything and enjoy the ride.

Well it sounds to me like he needs to stimulate you during sex. But first, you need to learn more about your body and what makes you feed good.



I can't vaginally orgasm either, at all, and it doesn't make me feel bad.



That's exactly why you need to do it. You cannot have enjoyable sex if you don't know yourself first!



You need to maturbate and do some explorative touching. That's all I'm going to say. You have got to know what makes you feel good first, before you're ever going to be able to tell someone else how to make you feel good.

Yep I agree with Eiri, masturbation helps you figure out what makes you tick. But if you feel THAT uncomfortable masturbating yourself, get him to do it for you that way you can both figure out what makes you go and you can try it together.

either he's lying or they faked it.