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Q: Gunna Cry...

asked by: Lauren_Jay15 on March 19th, 2007

Experienced User

Sweet Lord!

Girls please gimee some uplifting words I'm having a really really bad day today.

First of all I woke up with a banging headache and serious heartburn.

Then my friend rang me really p!issed off at me, she's pregnant aswell and after the baby is born she plans to go straight back to college 3 weeks later, I had said to another friend that I thought she'd find this really hard just 'cos I know I couldn't do it, this other friend twisted everything and said to my friend whose pregnant that I said she was stupid for going back to college so soon...I NEVER SAID THAT AT ALL! I'm actually envious of her for wanting to go back so soon, fair play if she has the support for people to look after the baby, but I haven't got the support, both my parents' work and I'm finding out who my true friends are and finding there aren't many at all...

I'm feeling so lonely and isolated.

Plus I'm moving next Monday, my family and I to another house but the new house has needed to be all done out in modern stuff, and my mum's been busy making it perfect so she's not been there for me.

Then, I'm a 15 years old, pregnant, with an ex boyfriend, (baby's father) who is an immature arse hole! And I have no money...

Also, I'm in the middle of my GCSE's, only taking 4, English, Maths, and health and social care which is worth two GCSE's. I was once predicted A's and B's now I'm predicted C's, D's and E's! I just can't do the work anymore.

So yea, I'm pretty much FED UP now and cannot take anymore stress.

Help?! How did you survive at your lowest during pregnancy? What did you do to make yourself feel better. Crying or Very sad

Replies(7)

Kia

replied on March 19th, 2007

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hugs

it's not the end of the world.
most colleges have a creche facility in the uk.
if you go to college this coming september you will be able to re-take your gcse's or take some other course of interest.

plus you'll get to meet some other people in your age group with babies too.

you might only be able to go part time but it's better than nothing.
why not ring round your local colleges tomorrow and ask them what facilites they have and if they can send you a prospectus to look at.

Lauren_Jay15

replied on March 19th, 2007

Experienced User

Yea, I think I will. Its just I'm fed up of my so-called friend saying I thought my friend was stupid for going back. If I could I would but there are only two colleges, which is the main one and school-sixth form. One has a cresh but only has babies from 1 year above. So I can't go back unless I pay for someone to look after the baby. My friend has her mum who doesn't work to look after the baby but my parents' have full time jobs. Plus they're already paying for a lot of the things. Man! I hate not knowing whats hormones and whats not.

Dannzibelle

replied on March 20th, 2007

Supporter

I had no idea you were 15 too! Well the name kinda gives it away but i've just noticed that. Believe me i know some of the stresses you're going through, I'm studying for my gcse's too and it is hard but remember all you can do is your best and allowences can be made for you to do them somewhere else and i've been told because of how close me due date is to my exams i can go to the dr and get a certificate which says about my situation etc and it then gives me 3% of the marks, maybe you could get the same thing? Sorry about your boyfriend being immature hun, i can't really help you much on that one because .Dom's not like that but if you need me pm me because we're pretty much in the same sitch Also people do twist things but at the end of the day that just shows their immaturity and those friends who arn't sticking by you, well what does that say about them. You keeo your head held up hugh because you have nothing to be ashamed of you are a very brave person to be keeping your child at our age.

Lauren_Jay15

replied on March 20th, 2007

Experienced User

Aww thanks hun, that makes me feel sooo better. I guess yesterday was just one of them bad bad days. I feel much better today but my situation hasn't change, only I'm starting to not even care anymore. I just wanna get through this pregnancy and have my baby in my arms. Grr! I just wish some people weren't so small minded!

Dannzibelle

replied on March 21st, 2007

Supporter

People are small minded but that's how life is. You just consentrate on staying happy and healthy and keep thinking of that gorgeous baby you'll have. And when the stretch marks set in do what i do and think of each one as a sign that she is getting bigger and stronger, makes me feel better!

Lauren_Jay15

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

thanks mate, im feeling better yesterday and today, just trying to get on with my coursework and stuff and concentrating on moving house and designing the baby's room! lol

lats

replied on March 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

Sorry I can't help you with advice for your schooling (I did mine by correspondence - I'm guessing you dont have access to that?) but i do know how you feel about the friends thing. When i got pregnant my friends either straight out turned their backs and the ones who didnt do that health forum behind my back and were nice to me just so they could go gaa gaa over my baby! It hurt at the time but now i know who are my real friends are and i think good riddence to the ones who turned on me!

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