oh you will know if u have an orgasm, its only like the best feeling in the world, of course it doesnt last very long, man i cant even describe it right now, i havent had sex in like a week or so. and im doped up on percocet right now for my tooth, but beleive me when u have one u will know. its just a feeling that overwhelms u. u may twitch etc, your pulse quickens etc, u may breathe heavily when its over. All i can say is it feels really good.
IM 19 YEARS OLD AND OF COURSE IM HAVIV SEX BUT I COULD NEVER FIQURE OUT WHEN IM HAVIN AN ORGASIM BUT I STAY LUBRICATED WITH MY OWN U NO SO WHAT R SOME SIGNS
Please don't type in all caps, this board gets rid of them anyway but when we quote you we can see it.
I wasn't having sex at the age of 19, so there's no "of course" about it!
Anyway, you need to masturbate by yourself first to find out exactly how you orgasm. A vibrator can help with this very much, especially for women who don't know if they've ever orgasmed.
There are two types of orgasms: Clitoral and vaginal. I hope you know what your clitoris is and where it is, and how good it feels to touch it. Use the vibrator or your fingers to stimulate the clitoris.
When you get close to orgasm, you feel like the only thing you want to do is keep the vibration against your clitoris; it's the most important thing in the world, you just want to keep going faster and faster, until suddenly there is a ruh of blood all over your body and a tingling down there, and your legs shake
A vaginal orgasm happens through stimulation of the g-spot, a rough area of skin about two to three inches inside the vagina, on the front wall (towards your stomach, not your bum!). This can feel like you need to pee very badly; but you need to let go and relax. You may release some fluid during this more powerful orgasm; this is normal.
as well as feelings described by other contributors, when you reach your climax your vaginal muscles clench rythmically 6 or 7 times at 0.8 second intervals.
That is your orgasm.
it is similar to the way a man climaxes, because he has the same pulses as he pumps out his sperm.
This is because the female clitoris is the same organ as the penis in the male, and has sensitive nerve endings, hich increase when stimulated.
all babies start with a clitoris, in the womb. if its going to be a boy baby , the clitoris grows into a penis. if its a girl baby it stays as a clitoris.
ok woman I am going to brag.I am a 43yr old man.I know how to give vaginal orgasms.My first wife and my second wife are proof.Girl friends of the past which I just practiced until I figured out where to put my penis.Men The length doest mean jack unless you were unlucky.It happens so find a woman who loves you and let her help you and you help her.Thats great sex to me.I will try not to orgasim until my wife does.90% of the time I can hold off.I am telling the truth on this.I am only 7 inches but my gerth is 2.5 inches.I use 4.5 inches to make my wife spray all over me .It is warm and wet.Feels like she is peeing on you but with a refreshing female fragrance.Which turns me on.I will let her have her moment of 3 to 8 orgasimsin just 10 minutes.I have to let myself go its hot.showing a woman how long you can go is ok to a point.They want to get of as fast an as hard as us men.So Lady's how am I doin so far??Am I lying on this???Come on only you woman know?? please answer to let others know.I think you woman are great in so manyways.I am a man.I can be a but sometimes.But sex or making love is the best stress reliever ever.It is part of life.Sometimes you just have to lick it.
The above posters are absolutly correct. One mentioned masterbating. You really need to start that and NOW. Really! For what ever weird reason a lot of women don't masterbate because of the views of society. But here is the thing it will make your sex life literally a million percent better. You can't really show a guy what you like if you don't know. And really guys want to make us ladies happy sexually. Plus it builds your confidence sexually and about your body. On top of all that it is empowering because then you do not ever have to rely on a man to please you sexually when you can get it on all by yourself. Sooo you will also probibly be less likely to have one night stands ect. Get some toys and watch some porn you will be having orgasms in no time! Peace
Hello again.So true but it so much more fun with a partner NO????Masterbate if you are feeling the erge.I masterbate I really rather not but sometimes I need alittle more high if you know what I mean.Well Have fun.
Jules, Of course you are quite right. Masturbation is the safest form of sex you can have. Masturbation is healthy, teaches you about your own body and sexual response and it is most likely the only way that most women will ever get close to their genitals in order to see if something is wrong. Orgasms make a woman more relaxed, less edgy, more content. Various good hormones and good chemicals are automatically released in our brains when we orgasm. Having regular orgasms also make you more likely to have orgasms.
An interesting study I have seen claimed that most women do not masturbate because:
1) they do no know about it
2) they do not know how
3) they think that something is going to break or go wrong
4) they think something is wrong with them and they are the only ones doing it
5) and many stop well before orgasm because they are afraid of the unknown feelings they are experiencing.
Recently researchers also determined that the guilty feelings comes from the fact that when these feel-good chemicals that our brain release when we orgasm withdraws from our systems, we get slightly depressed and feeling guilty. During orgasm, various parts of our brains also shuts down. No activity can be seen in those parts. It is as if we are going into a coma. When these parts of the brain comes online again, it can cause the guilty feelings.
Not all women need toys or feel comfortable with porn, so whatever way tickles your fancy.
The other thing that goes with sexual self discovery should be a good look at your genitals to identify every thing and see what it looks like. Every girl in puberty should at least once take a mirror and take a good long look.
Ahh. An orgasm is the best feeling in the world. Your heart is racing. You dont wanna stop. It is an amazing feeling. I cant even describe it. Im a woman and i wish it could last 10 hours. I always have my mouthopen and my eyes closed. I always lean to the side and im breathing so heavily. MASTERBATE before sex so you know the feeling. I masterbate only to have an orgasm. Ahhh, an amazing feeling.