Porno

Well theres the guy girl porno's.. The girl girl porno's.. And the guy guy porno's.. Thats about all pretty much.. So as for your question about what pornos would attract women? None really.. You just have to have an open mind, and not get too grossed out about looking at another naked woman on screen.. Try enacting what they do in the movie between u and ur guy.. Might make you want to watch them once in awhile!

I could not help you there, I find porno completely disgusting and would never watch it. I feel that if my man needs porn to turn him on that we do not need to be together. Good luck with this one.

I agree with you veryyyyyy much frick

Thanks erica! In this day in age, it is so good to hear I am not the only woman with self respect left!

Lol I know. I remember getting pissed off when we only had one computer because I was finding porn on it and then I learned how to check the history and then times that sites were viewed and never thought it would be his little brother!!! I always would accuse my man and get sick to my stomach but now I know who it is . We have our own computer now and whenever his bro goes to school, I check his history lol and all the kid looks at is porn porn and more porn. He's not a kid really he turns 19 2morrow. ~ erica.

Yeah I know what you mean. I can understand when they are really young and just curious, but after that I feel it is just uncalled for. Especially if you are with someone. Now, if you have been alone for years or something maybe, but if you are with a girl and feel the need to look at porn, then she obviously is not the one for you! Or you are just not ready to be in a monogomous relationship. But once again a lot of people do not agree, but that is my view on it. And I would never ever stay with someone who I knew looked at porn while with me!

I agree with all that but at the same time you have to be open to your partner's desires.

My looks at porn and so do I sometimes, not as much as him though. We're in a long distant relationship so I dont really worry about it, after all isnt that better than him or I going out and sleeping with someone else? Or do you guys still think its wrong?

It is only wrong in my eyes. You do not have to agree. Yes you have to be open to your partners desires to an extent, but my extent has never and will never include other people. Whether there physically or on tape.
Yes it is better then sleeping with someone else, but isn't that a bit drastic? I have had long lasting long distance relationships and have not slept around or had any desire whatsoever to look at porn. But that is just me. Maybe it was my old-fashioned christian upbringing. Monogamy is a huge deal to me, even if it is only in the mind. I think every woman and man deserves someone to be theirs and only theirs. Physically and mentally.

Have you guys ever watched porno? Because unless you have watched and then decided that you were disgusted by it, then you have to room to argue!! Porno's can be directed towards men and women, they are not just for men, and alot more couples then you would think, watch porno's together and enjoy it. I won't lie, I have watched porno's before ( only with my boyfriend) and a couple times I did find it arrousing, and I am not afraid to say that. I would never watch one, alone on my own time, but porno's can bring alot of intimacy into a relationship!! I understand that you have your own thoughts and opinions, and I respect your opinion. I thought that porno's were digusting and degrading, until I actually watched one. The people in the porno's are disgusting, but that is another story. Some porno's actaully have a good story to them, and it's just like a good movie with alot of sex, you just have to find the right one. Give it a try, whats the worst that could happen- right? It's not like your gonna go to hell for watching a porno, priests molest little boys!!!! No offfense to anyone, I think it's pathetic, and I am a confirmed catholic!!!!
I have been with my boyfiriend for 2 1/2 years, and the first time I watched a porno was with him, and our sexual relationship has only gotten better over time. It's ok to explore new things!!!! Your only human!

You do not have to watch porn to be disgusted by it. I don't want to see anyone naked or watch them have sex. Sex is a sacred act between two people. If you cannot find a way to spice it up and try new things without watching smut, then there is something very wrong with your relationship. And yes, I have seen porn. I do not think that all porn is "degrading" I think it is disgusting.
Some people like it and some don't. I find it repulsive and no man of mine will stay with me if he watches it. It is immoral. And it is sinful. That does not mean that you will go straight to hell, but it is definately sinful. Of course, so are a lot of things that we all do anyway. (sad but true.) and I cannot honestly say that is why I do not like it. I just don't like it because it is disgusting and I could never get turned on by watching someone else have sex. If my man cannot find a way to turn me on, and me him, then it is time to work on it or move on.

I believe in monogamy also, that is why me and my man chose to not go out and be with other ppl even though we are in a long distant relationship. But every one gets sexual "urges", and has the craving for sexual contact. If you dont, then you're either a virgin, or not interested in sexual conduct. Looking at some form of porn is not wrong, especially if you are in a long distant relationship. That way you can satisfy your own needs w/o going to someone other than your partner. As long as your partner knows about it and when you guys are together you have a healthy sexual relationship. Not only can it relieve stress from the long distant relationship, but it can be good for your relationship. You just have to have an open mind about the subject. This is my opinion, and like I said, I am all for monogamy!!!

Everyone has a different opinion. All I did was state mine and now I am being accused of being a virgin? Or not interested in sex? No I can just control myself. My life does not revolve around sex and I choose not to look at porn. What the hell is so wrong with that?????? I am not saying that you guys are sluts or horn balls so why is it that you are saying things about me sexually because of my opinion? I am not a virgin and I am very very good in bed!!!So don't get any ideas about me being "boring" or whatever. I just do not need to watch someone else have sex or have a threesome or whatever. Some people do and I don't. Monogomy to me does not include porn, but that is just me. I am not saying that you cannot be monogomous and look at porn. If that is what you and your partner agree on then o.K. That is just not for me. Sorry.

Ok, I can understand that you have strong feelings against watching porn, and thats ok. But my god, it is not immortal to watch a pornographic video. You are taking this one step too far!! In europe being nude is considered the most beautiful thing, are you saying that they are all awful sinners? No!!!! What about naked statues, is that disgusting too, no, it is a work of art. If it was so disgusting they wouldnt put paintings in museums for the world to see!

Ok once again if you do not like my opinion do not respond to it. I did not realize that I was going to cause world war really g three!
And I never said that naked people are gross! There is a huge difference between admiring the human body and watching two people get it on! Huge difference. Don't tell me I am taking anything to far! I stated my opinion and that was all for god sakes if you don't like then that is fine, but don't you dare make fun of my opinion and tell me I am taking it to far.
I will not be responding to this post anymore because it is royally pissing me off! So you are now free to make fun of me all that you want. I have better things to do then to defend my opinion to a bunch of people I do not even know!

Listen, I don't think it's right for you to tell people that it is an immortal sin for people to watch porn, that's all I was saying. Thats your opinion, not a law or sin or commandment, is it? Take a frickin chill pill. And I also stated my opinion and you didn't like mine. Who the hell are you to say that if someone watches porn, because they like to and they have every right to, that is in an immortal sin, I don't think that you have any idea what you are talking about. Telling other people that they are going to go to hell is wrong. And I don't care if you don't respond anymore I just want everyone else to know that you are making a mountain out of a mole hill, its just porn, its not the end of the world!!

If you look, you may find certain porno's that have a good story base, that just have alot of sex in them. They are more like erotic stories that people fantasize about. Good luck on finding a good one, and enjoy!!! It can be a really good experience, and your not alone!!!!!

Dear sparkles,
you did ask if watching porn was a sin or something...Actually it is. Obviouslly they didn't have camcorder technology back then but sex has always been filled with the potential of lots of good and lots of bad. The bible refers to it as sexual immorality, adultery, fornication, impurity, lust, evil desires and idolatry (wich really means the worship of something other than god). That's the bad stuff jesus was talking about "anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.... If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it our and throw it away. It is better to lose one part of you body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell." matthew 5:28-29
it goes both ways with the looking and lusting ladies so we can't think we're exempt and plan a trip to the male strip bar. Simply put, our minds and bodies belong to our husbands and vice versa. You are worth a man who only wants to look and think and touch you forever...God thinks so...Don't you?

I was just posting my opinion, my point was....That there are alot worse things in the world then watching porn. And I completely respect your opinion and everyone else's. You don't need to lecture me, I went to sunday school from pre-k to 9th grade and I made my confirmation, I went to church every sunday, and honestly I havent been for 2 years. I'm sorry but I think that half of the things that "god" said or the bible says is a crock of you know what...! And I am actually considering switching to a religion that makes more sense to me. In any sense... You can't possibly live by every single statement that god ever made, or for that matter, any belief. Yes, I understand that many people look to god for relief and forgiveness, but as far as what is written in a book, that no-one can possibly ever prove to be completely true, why should we live our everyday by every word. I only said that there was nothing wrong with watching a porno with my boyfriend. If I want to watch a porno with my boyfriend, in the privacy of my own home, to bring intimacy to the relationship, where's the harm done? It's not like I am married and going out having one night stands with all these men, and doing other horrible things. There are far worse things that I could do with my life, and I am not going to burn in hell for it, thats all I was saying. If that is the worst thing I ever do in my entire life, then shoot me! I didn't mean to offend anyone!!! There are so many bad things in this world today, I hardly doubt that this is going to make the world fall apart.


I also understand that religion is a very sensative subject, and alot of people get offended by things that they don't agree with. Just because you think that it is an immortal sin, because of your beliefs, that is not everyone else's beliefs.
I am not the person you think I am. I am a college student with a high gpa. I have had a rough life, and I think that i've made it pretty far, and gotten myself through alot. I am not a bad person! I am very appreciative of my surroundings, and I work hard for the things I have. I take much pride in my life, and it hasn't been easy for me. I've had quite a few situations in my life, that has caused me to question my faith - and right now, I don't know what I believe in. And thats ok!! I admire you people who stick with their morals and beliefs, I am not trying to tell you that you are wrong or that what you believe in is wrong. Everyone has their own morals and beliefs and if yours are gods, then more power to you, but just because you choose to believe in gods words, and they may not be what I believe in doesn't make me wrong either!!! If thats not what I believe then how can I be wrong. I hope you understand where I am coming from - and again if I offended you, I am sorry, but there is no reason to be rude!!!!