Yesterday was my last day of me having my
menses.It was a complete of seven
days.Today,i and my boyfriend had sex.And
yes,the sperm when in.He said he could'nt
controll.What are the chances of me
getting pregnant since yesterday was my
last day of my menses?What should i do?
Please response to this post.
I really need help urgently.
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girl18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 5 Location: singapore
Posted: 03-16-07 09:46am
wear a condom?
i know,but it's too late now.so you think
what are my chances?
i just need help and tell me what i should
do next so that i dont have a baby.
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girl18
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Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 5 Location: singapore
Posted: 03-16-07 10:05am
yah.thanks for the advise.
but can somebody tell me what the chances
are?
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-16-07 10:19am
Your chances depend on many things, like
your average cycle length, etc.
I'd say you more than likely are not
pregnant. But I am not able to see into
the future.
As far as your bf saying he couldn't
control it, that, my dear, is a lie. Boys
will tell you all sorts of things to get
away from wearing a condom. They'll tell
you they are infertile. They'll tell you
their sperm don't work. They'll tell you
anything and everything to avoid that
condom. But you, being a sensible person,
will not let them do that. You'll have a
condom ready (you can get them for free at
planned parenthood!) and you will not have
sex without one!
It would also be a good idea to get on the
birth control pill. Always wear a condom
even if you are on the pill!!!!!
Good luck!
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 03-16-07 10:34am
you had sex last night?
go now to your nearest plannedparenthood
or similar and get the morning after
pill.
it needs to be taken within 72 hours of
unprotected sex - the sooner the better.
while there discuss future birth control
so you don't find yourself in this
situation again.
the day your period finishes is totally
irrelevant.
the day it starts is the all important
day.
if I were to assume you have a regular 28
day cycle and your period began on march
08 then your "likely" ovulation would be
around march 22.
sperm can survive for upto 5 days inside
the fertile female.
the egg is good for about 36 hours after
ovulation.
so your window of likely highest fertility
is from 22-5=17 march 17 until march
23/24
now when I say likely that means based on
averages and assumptions with an educated
guess here and there.
I do not know when you ovulate (release an
egg), you could be an early ovulator or a
late one.
as you can see you are borderlining the
window of high fertility for an average
cycle.
really your best option is to go to a
plannedparenthood or similar as soon as
possible.
once your period is due or late then you
can take a test to see if you are pregnant
or not.
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Jules
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Posted: 03-16-07 11:05am
Edited because the posts I was referring
to have been deleted
Last edited by Jules on 03-16-07 11:51am; edited 1 time in total
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 03-16-07 11:44am
posts have been edited from this thread
because they were either unnecessary or
rude.
remember theres a difference between
comforting advice and rude comments.
If you cant say anything supportive or
nice, keep your comments to yourselves.
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girl18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 5 Location: singapore
Posted: 03-17-07 05:37am
thanks but im only 18.Will it be a crime
or anything?I just dont one another
problem though.
Is it true that eating raw papaya will
like somehow making you not to be
pregnant?
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 03-17-07 06:36am
girl18
wrote:
thanks but im only 18.Will
it be a crime or anything?I just dont one
another problem
though.
potentially your parents
could sue him for statutory rape.
plannedparentood is confidential
Quote:
Is it true that
eating raw papaya will like somehow making
you not to be
pregnant?
no.
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girl18
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2007 Posts: 5 Location: singapore
Posted: 03-17-07 23:47pm
ok but where can i find Plannedparentood
?
I mean,is it expensinve?
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Aryeani
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 128 Location: Edinburg, Texas, United States
Posted: 03-18-07 00:36am
Just look in the phonebook. There's
usually a planned parenthood nearby. Some
charge for things, while some are free but
it will be confidential regardless.
