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Q: I Need Your Helppp.
asked by: girl18 on March 16th, 2007
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Yesterday was my last day of me having my menses.It was a complete of seven days.Today,i and my boyfriend had sex.And yes,the sperm when in.He said he could'nt controll.What are the chances of me getting pregnant since yesterday was my last day of my menses?What should i do?

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I really need help urgently.
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girl18
replied on March 16th, 2007
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wear a condom?
i know,but it's too late now.so you think what are my chances?
i just need help and tell me what i should do next so that i dont have a baby.
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girl18
replied on March 16th, 2007
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yah.thanks for the advise.
but can somebody tell me what the chances are?
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Mabel
replied on March 16th, 2007
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Your chances depend on many things, like your average cycle length, etc.

I'd say you more than likely are not pregnant. But I am not able to see into the future.

As far as your bf saying he couldn't control it, that, my dear, is a lie. Boys will tell you all sorts of things to get away from wearing a condom. They'll tell you they are infertile. They'll tell you their sperm don't work. They'll tell you anything and everything to avoid that condom. But you, being a sensible person, will not let them do that. You'll have a condom ready (you can get them for free at planned parenthood!) and you will not have sex without one!

It would also be a good idea to get on the birth control pill. Always wear a condom even if you are on the pill!!!!!


Good luck!
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Kia
replied on March 16th, 2007
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you had sex last night?
go now to your nearest plannedparenthood or similar and get the morning after pill.

it needs to be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex - the sooner the better.

while there discuss future birth control so you don't find yourself in this situation again.

the day your period finishes is totally irrelevant.
the day it starts is the all important day.

if I were to assume you have a regular 28 day cycle and your period began on march 08 then your "likely" ovulation would be around march 22.
sperm can survive for upto 5 days inside the fertile female.
the egg is good for about 36 hours after ovulation.
so your window of likely highest fertility is from 22-5=17 march 17 until march 23/24

now when I say likely that means based on averages and assumptions with an educated guess here and there.

I do not know when you ovulate (release an egg), you could be an early ovulator or a late one.
as you can see you are borderlining the window of high fertility for an average cycle.

really your best option is to go to a plannedparenthood or similar as soon as possible.

once your period is due or late then you can take a test to see if you are pregnant or not.
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Jules
replied on March 16th, 2007
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Edited because the posts I was referring to have been deleted Wink
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Sandbox Party
replied on March 16th, 2007
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posts have been edited from this thread because they were either unnecessary or rude.

remember theres a difference between comforting advice and rude comments.

If you cant say anything supportive or nice, keep your comments to yourselves.
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girl18
replied on March 17th, 2007
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thanks but im only 18.Will it be a crime or anything?I just dont one another problem though.

Is it true that eating raw papaya will like somehow making you not to be pregnant?
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Kia
replied on March 17th, 2007
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girl18 wrote:
thanks but im only 18.Will it be a crime or anything?I just dont one another problem though.
potentially your parents could sue him for statutory rape.
plannedparentood is confidential

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Is it true that eating raw papaya will like somehow making you not to be pregnant?
no.
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girl18
replied on March 17th, 2007
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ok but where can i find Plannedparentood ?
I mean,is it expensinve?
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Aryeani
replied on March 18th, 2007
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Just look in the phonebook. There's usually a planned parenthood nearby. Some charge for things, while some are free but it will be confidential regardless.
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