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Q: Kinda Confused
asked by: Star2007 on March 15th, 2007
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Guys are weird lol. A few weeks ago, my boyfriend was acting weird. Just the way he was talking seemed kinda mean, like he was stressed out, and he said he was so I shrugged it off. A few nights later, I was in his room at college and I saw a convo between him and his friend on his computer. I saw my name and couldn't help but read. He basically complained about me, said some kinda mean things about me. Said I'm putting off college so I can marry him(not true) and all i wanna do is marry him. I was in shock. He told his friend he might want a break, he doesn't know. I wanted to cry. I didn't tell him I read his convo cause I didn't want him to get mad. That night he was acting fine, cuddling with me and stuff. I was confused.

He's beein acting fine since then. More back to himself now. Says he loves me, etc. He did say he was stressed that week. I feel like things are back to normal. I told him I know I can be annoying, but I don't mean to. He said he knows. I talked to his friend about going to the college I wanna go to so maybe he sees that I am trying.

Maybe he's fine with everything now? I just don't know why he said all that stuff.
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flipper
replied on March 16th, 2007
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He was probably just venting. I know that if I get really mad at my husband, I'll call my friends or my mother sometimes and just let it fly! LOL. It was just how I felt at that one particular moment though, and didn't mean it. Still, might be a good idea to just ask him how he feels, and see if there's anything he wants to discuss with you. (He'd probably be pretty mad about you reading stuff on his computer. I know I'd be upset if my husband peeked through my journal or something.)
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DPantelones
replied on March 19th, 2007
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You're going to have to forget what you read and like ^^ said, just know it was venting and that's healthy....you were never supposed to read that stuff. Relationships are hard enough without throwing in some trust issues, so just forget what you read and dont' tell him you read it Surprised)
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