yes i like to be tied up and blind-folded too. paying attention to all genital areas is cool but i also like to have my nipples played with and sucked. also like to have my neck kissed and sucked on too. after that it's pretty much up to you. anything sounds good right about now.
hope this helps

yeah that helps some.sorry for trying to get too personal but what about your balls?do you like to leave them out of it or do you like them messed with too?Just trying to get ideas.I wanna stay away from touching his tool as long as I can,drive him crazy! lol

If tying him up is a fantasy of yours and he's willing to do it, go for it. If you're just looking to add some variety I'm sure there are many books that cover techniques, positions, roleplay, S&M, etc. To give you ideas and what not.

One of my main fantasies is to wrestle around in baby oil. Messy, but sounds oh so fun.

Personally, I don't like my balls messed with, but that's just me. I don't find it pleasurable and since I have a varicocele it can be painful.

I like it when a girl just takes charge and does what she wants. It's a nice break from having to be the dominant one. Of course, that always depends on the person. Some may want to be one all the time, some may want to switch.

Your last question is worded perfectly, drive him crazy. The brain really is the most important sexual organ. It is absolutely possible to reach orgasm without any physical stimulation at all. When you've got him tied up spend a good amount of time just talking to him and teasing him. Teasing him with your body. A little stripping, touching yourself, etc. Tell him what you want to do to him, but don't do it, just let it build in his brain. Put your body close to his while explaining what you're going to do. Hover your face, hands or breasts over the area you're talking about, perhaps simulating what you're going to do. It's a step towards touching, but not, driving him more crazy. You'll also be getting very aroused and crazy too, so try to hold off.

Then when you begin to touch him, make it slow and full body. Slide your hands and body parts, hair, etc. slowly and softly over him. He's already crazy, but keep it going. Try to avoid his penis as that's what he wants you to do. Get close making it seem like you're going to finally please him, but then back off. There's no script, but you get the idea. Once you start to pleasure him you could even stop before he reaches orgasm, and do it again. Depends on how cruel you want to be. However, at the end of the night no matter how cruel you were in holding off, it will be one of the most amazing orgasms he's ever had. It's not a daily thing, but it's great on occasion.

Some other night, the tables turn and it's your turn.

Lastly, it depends on the person and the couple. Some like nipple play, some don't, and some don't know it yet. Roleplaying is always worth a try. Even phone sex. Mutual masturbation. A little roughness. The possibilities are endless. You really have to talk to each other and try things out. But go ahead and surprise him with something new if you like. Just try to gauge if he's comfortable with it. Most likely he'll be excited about it.

your awesome! that is on the nose what I needed! ok,another question,what about blow jobs?I'm not hug on giving them although I do like to sometimes.I am not always 0 sure I'm doing it right and I have asked him to guide me but he wont,he says it's ok.I know sucking hard hurts a guy,lol but how so you know how hard or soft to do it etc?

another question (may be more geared toward a woman to answer)is I really like the talking dirty and flirty thing,but I feel dumb saying things, like he'll think it's funny,maybe because I don't feel sexy.I'm not fat,not skinny.I weigh 155 about,and I am 5ft 10in.Any ideas on how to make myself feel more sexy?


thank you so much for your reply!!!

well yes i do like to have my balls included. just be careful they are sensitive. use your imagination - i doubt you will go wrong.
secondly, if you want to feel sexier, try some low cut tops that show off your cleavage. also lingerie is a good way to feel sexier. find something you feel comfortable in and take it from there. try incorporating the talking dirty while you have him tied up. i know i wouldn't mind and i know i wouldn't be laughing either.
hope these ideas work for you.
p.s i think your sexy

aww thank you! that made me feel better! even though you don't know what I lok like,lol.I appreciated that!

Hello my darling....how are you today. it's funny to see you way over here. hehe..... (oh btw i didn't know there was a new man.)


do you like being tied up? I love being tied up and I love doing the tying up. Most of the guys i have known like being tied up. one didnt' and it turned out he liked to be in control of everything...not just in bed. so i would run from a guy that won't even try it.

what is a fantasy of yours? i love knife play, it's great, my fantasy isn't really a fantasy, but more of a dream. i would love to find a man that could and knows how to play with knives. Blood play is a good thing too. I love it. I would love to be tied up and cut a little (no perm scarring though) and then kissed in those spots. (i know melly i am weird.)

do you like your balls messed with/sucked on/anything? i don't have them...needless to say, but any man that i have been with (no i havent' been with a lot of men) have loved their balls sucked, squeezed (slightly) tugged on, messed with, and/or licked.

what do you like a girl to do to you? i know what i like girls to do to/for me...but seeing as how this is directed to men..i can't answer this.

what drives you crazy in bed? lol @ tool, I would do what the other say....it always drove me crazy when i was so ready to just have him dive in but he wasnt' ready....I would try that.....lots of kissing and touching. use your hands as much as possible...you have beautuful boobies (i am sure) use them to touch him with, without using your hands. use your hair too. try the whole tickle thing see if it works....some don't like it.


Also try talking to him and telling him what to do...tell him that he can't touch you there (^) until you tell him too. this always drove my man crazy...you can bring in toys if you are ready, this is always fun.

oh and melly, i think your sexy, but you already knew that.

aww,thank you hun! i love you!!! guys think I have nice boobs,me on the other hand think theyre too damn big! lol but i'll do the rubbing boobie thing!

Gen,what do you like a girl to do to you?I mean,this is about girls doing things to guys but most of the time girls and guys like the same things done to them! spill your guts girl! lol

wow
i was right, you are sexy!!!!!!
they are not too big either

Melly is beautiful!!!! You guys can't have her either!!!!

I love being rubbed, touched, caressed, kissed, I love to feel like it's all about me...but on the same note...i love making the person i am with feel like it's all about them. A guy or a girl who knows how to make a person feel like they are the only one in that moment has the right touch. A guy or a girl that can make me shudder knows what i like. I love the anticipation of what is going to happen next. I love being blindfolded. I love being tied up, i love knife play (alreay told you that, and you have been aware of that for a while now.) I love being spanked, not too hard though...i love being dominated. But, on the flip side i love dominating. I am wicked crazy!! but you know that.

Try making your man (oh by the way pm me with who he is....i haven't heard anything.) feel like the only man on earth at that time. make it dark with candles...that cast shadows on the walls and bed...dress in something see thru and cute...and just....well i don't know if i can finish this sentance because i dont' know if you love him yet. (do you love him yet?????)

oh I love you .gen! lol Yes I do care for him *lots*! he is a nice guy. . . I love to be dominated and other times in control,its so sexy!

thank you for the compliment change is good! but just so you know i'm the one in pink!

i know - i wouldn't have guessed any other way. does not change my opinion either. you still are sexy. you have plenty of cleavage to work with too!!
try something in black lace. a little see through but not totally.
pink looks good on you too!!!!!

I was hoping you were the one in the middle. .H.O.T !!!!! Thats what gets me going.......

lol,thanks!


damn. . .oh well,I guess that puts me out!

[quote="~*~Melissa~*~"]lol,thanks!

you're quite welcome

well,since you saw my pic you should show yours!it's only fair!

Sunflowerpie is very purdy too!

wow
i haven't played " i'll show you mine if you show me yours" in a while - thanks it's exciting - and you thought you weren't sexy.
but you are right - i will post one for you soon - need to get my digital camera back first

How do you put a picture in the body of the message?

have you ever used www.imagecave.com? well you can go there and register for free,it's quick.then you upload your pics off your computer onto that site.when the pic is done loading you copy and past the url into here.