I have had three people in the last week say something along the same lines....i hate it....really i do.

I am in total diet mode. I hate that feeling.

but i totally feel you my love...it does suck. 100%

Eww. I'm sorry, babe. I'm sure you don't look pregnant. I really hate when people just assume stuff like that, because it backfires a lot and hurts a lot of feelings.

Did you guys have .oni with you?

No, she wasn't with us. Baron was like "just tell her you just had a baby." and I said "no! CUz I didn't *just* have a baby. I Had one almost 11 months ago... "

I mean, I went from on top of the world running in the rain, to total sadness...

SArah

just think of how embarrassed she felt after saying that!

i'm sure it's because you looked like you were holding your belly. try not to let it bother you, you're beautiful!

THanks girl! And I know I probably would have assumed the same thing if I had seen a woman running in the rain holding her lower belly.

But i have tact and would have never said that to a woman. It's just *wrong*!

Sarah

A few weeks after Ava was born Jesse and I went out to a bar to listen to my favorite band. I was upset before we left b/c nothing fit and I had a little belly. Anyway, there was a girl there that I saw the day before I had Ava, she knew that I was a week overdue. She came up to me at the bar and said, "yep, still pregnant, huh?" and walked away. She then realized what she did and apologized to my sister-in-law b/c she couldn't look me in the face. I was pissed. It was like throwing salt on a wound. I had such a hard time getting ready and within the first 30 minutes of being there I get accused of still being pregnant -- 9 months pregnant at that!!!

we were at walmart when caty was either 2 or 3 weeks old buying diapers and some jerk-off was like, aww cute baby! How old is she? and rob was like, 2 weeks, and then he looked at me and goes, *got another one in the oven?*


no stupid.

yeah, i *just* had a baby 2 weeks ago and im already far along enuf to look pregnant.

fools.

That happened to me at a store near my house. about a week or so after i had chu i went in there and the salesgirl said, "you still didn't have that baby!?!" I wanted to punch her in the forehead.

lmao

unless i see a woman running her belly continuously, smiling, and looking at her belly, and wearing a shirt saying im pregnant while shopping for baby clothes is the only time id say something..Im sorry but you can tell the freaking difference..People are so stupid sometimes.

**gone**

Mel, honestly, when you saw me..did I look pregnant!?!?!? I mean, I didn't think I looked that bad! lol...Oni was 6 months old.

It just sucks!!

Sarah

definetly .n.o.t!!!! and i'm sure you have even lost some weight since I saw you! it looks that way anyhow

i'm sure it s just because you had your hand on your belly. people usually assume someone is pregnant when they do that....

mel, why do you keep editing your posts? this is like the 3rd "gone" i've seen.

you know what they say about people who assume stuff?!!

i know. people suck in general though

yes they do

thanks ladies...I know I shouldn't have taken offence to it...it's just hard not too!

She was soo worried! like Where are you going?!? Are you pregnant?!?!


It just sucked!

Sarah