I just wanted to know it this is as weird
as I think it is. I have never had an
orgasm during sex with my husband ( I
havent with anyone)... but I can orgasm
through masturbation. Also, sex doesnt
feel like anything to me...it only starts
to somewhat feel good is after my husband
cums inside of me, thats when I can start
to begin to feel the beginning of an
orgasm but it never comes.....what should
I do
Thanks
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-14-07 14:37pm
No, it isn't weird. A lot of women don't
orgasm from vaginal sex. What is it about
your husband's orgasm that makes it feel
good for you? Is the mental side and
knowing that he had an orgasm? Is it the
physical side, maybe the extra
lubrication? If you think it might be
that extra lubrication that you are
getting from his semen that is making it
feel good, then you could try buying some
lubrication at the store.
Don't be afraid to guide your husband
during sex or have him explore your body
to find out where you are the most
sensitive. Keep in mind that some women
are not very sensitive, so don't get down
if you don't really find any sensitive
spots. You know what you like enough to
orgasm during masturbation though, so try
to see if you can incorporate what you
know about your body and what it likes to
when you are with your husband. It can,
but does not have to be during vaginal
sex. Many women orgasm easier during oral
sex.
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filthiman
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2007 Posts: 14 Location: miami
Posted: 03-19-07 12:03pm
has he ever found your G-spot? if not,
then he needs to go adventure down stairs
lol. but yeah, tell him what feels good
and what doesn't. i don't think guys are
really as sexually inept as women make us
out to be, its just that subtlety doesn't
work with us. like i said, just tell him
what to do.
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Shawnda
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2007 Posts: 21 Location: Jackson, MI
Posted: 03-19-07 18:15pm
I've never had an orgasm during sex. I've
been sexually active for 3 years now. I
also have limited feeling during sex.
What my fiance and i have come up with to
fix the problem is that i masturbate
before we have sex, that way i'm well
lubed and turned on a head of time. Maybe
if your husband is okay with that, it may
be worth a shot. So far its helped me
with my sex life.
Thanks
