Hi, i'm 17 years old and this is my senior year in high school and I have been sexually active for 2 years without any problems. I don't have any std's and I haven't dated a lot of guys but I did make a big mistake. I am now a week and 5 days late for my period (which was due on the 17th of august) and I have taken 3 home pregnancy tests so far. All the tests results were positive and my parents and I are almost certain that I may be pregnant. I had just broken up with my last boyfriend over a month ago and things between us are a little tense. He and I are still friends but when he found out that the man I am dating now got me pregnant, he thinks that it was him who impregnated me and not the guy I am with now. I have had unprotected sex with both of them and i'm not sure who the father is. I've had unprotected sex with my last boyfriend for nearly a year without getting pregnant and until I broke up with him, I had fairly regular periods. As soon as I started dating this other guy (who I also had unprotected sex with) i've been nearly 2 weeks late. The sole difference between my last boyfriend and the one i'm currently dating is that the one i'm with now came inside me a couple of times. The reason I allowed him to do so is because my period was coming soon and I figured that ovulation had already passed so I didn't see the harm in it. My parents are not estatic about the situation but they are accepting it and they will be there to support me in the long run. My main dilemma right now is figuring out the father of my child and the best way for me to get a full high school education. If anyone had any advice or information about my situation please PM me and let me know. Thanks!!!!!
You should never assume that because your period is coming that they can come in you! Then let two differnent guys do that? The only thing you can do is get a dna test. Thats the only way to know which one its from. Take a test from a doctor and they will give you the for sure if you are or not pregnant. Thake another test for any std's during the pregnancy becuase you exchanged bodily fluids with 2 men, without protection. Good luck, please be safe from now on.
I know it's the last thing you wanna hear but don't have un protected sex....Trust me it's not worth the worries...Im also 17 and a highschool senior, and just recently had a scare...I was lucky enough to find out im not pregnant...And I plan on having safe sex until im married and ready for a family...I wish you the best of luck sweetie
Hey..Sounds like your pregnant...But get a test either from the doctor or a womens health facility/clinic. You will need to get a dna test done to find out who the baby's father is, you will need to do this especially if you need/want child support from the father. You will need to talk to a doctor about the dna test, im not sure if they can do it before the birth, most wait until the baby is delivered, they may be able to check through an amniosyntesis.(however, most women don't feel comfortable doing that.) I would keep both of them in your lives for the time being, until you can be sure who the father is. And maybe even after the father is revealed, if both still want to be part of the circle, you may find it beneficial, after all, they say it takes a village to raise a baby. Good luck...Oh yeah, and if you learn nothing else from this experience...Use protection, no matter where you are in your cycle.
I would never presume to try and tell you what to do, because I have never been in your situation. However, I am currently researching teen pregnancy for my high school newpaper. I just wanteed to give you some encouragement and let you know that no matter who the father of your child is, you will be a great mother. Also, you really need to make sure that you saty in school. There are programs that can help you make the most of your situation. So don't give up and let me know how things turn out!