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Q: Confused
asked by: megums1211 on March 12th, 2007
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So when I was a teenager (like about 16 or 17) I had this "thing" with this older guy (he was 22 or 23). He and I always wanted to get together but we couldn't b/c our families were close friends and they wouldn't have approved of the age difference... But we had it really bad for each other. Like he would volunteer at my dad's church at Christmas just so he and I could sneak off together at break time... and he would say things to me about my body and the way that I looked ( I was alot thinner then only about a size 8 and I have quite a large chest 36 D and I am Italian so I have dark hair, brown eyes, and olive skin. We knew that things couldn't be at that time so we went on with our lives (he finished college and I started dating my husband) I have never felt for anyone the way I feel for him... not even my husband... He just made me feel so special and he was like my prince charming. He was perfect in every way and man is he gorgeous! Well, he moved away with his job and I ended up getting married... I had forgotten about him (well, just ignored my feelings) until I saw him the other day at his brother's wedding... *sigh* now I'm having mixed feelings... We sat and talked at the reception for hours (my husband stayed home with Brianne). and now all those feelings for him are rising again... it's so strong that it's making me act strangely around my husband... I wouldn't even kiss him this morning! HELP!! what do I do? I feel terrible... I love my husband... I really do... We just don't have that "spark" anymore... I would never cheat on him. I love him. How do I erase those old feelings?!?! Confused
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michelle1981
replied on March 12th, 2007
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Oh, i'm speechless. I wish i could help you, but i don't know what to say Confused
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on March 12th, 2007
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oh man, this is a hard one. It's something you're going to have to battle with.

You're used to your hubby, and the thought of an old fling, or someone *new* makes you tingle.

But you have to put yourself in your man's shoes.

How would *you* feel if he had gone somewhere and started talking to an ex(you know what I mean)...and then all of a sudden started acting strangly around you?

You would be crushed.

I've had thoughts. But had to smash them. I thought about how badly I would hurt if the situation had been flipped. Sad

Pm me if you want!!

Sarah
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