Men can ejaculate without having an orgasm, although that does not happen often. Women do not usually ejaculate anything, so the orgasm is the whole deal for us. Either you orgasmed or you didn't. If you are basing on this lubrication, then that is normal and does not have anything to do with ejaculation, which few women do, or orgasm. Women produce lubrication when they are in the mood whether they orgasm or not.

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Quite right. For women, the terms "orgasm" and "cum" are one in the same.

Orgasm is one thing. (contracting and spasms of the vaginal muscles and genitals) Cumming is something else. (liquid ejaculation through urethra, NOT urine) Sometimes they happen simultaneously, but it is possible to orgasm without cumming and it is possible to cum without having an orgasm, although the former is the more likely scenario. A tip that might help you cum while being stimulated or while orgasming is too push out with your vaginal muscles instead of tightening and clenching inward as most women tend to do because of the intensity of the feelings. I hope this helps! This is from the book, "Real Sex for Real Women" and after being sexually active for 6 years, I finally had my first orgasm in April! YEAH!

remember to check the dates the orginal posts were posted..this thread is very old