For me the first time wasn't very pleasant.. but after that it got better. The first few times we did it we didn't use lube, and now that we do it's a *lot* better. I used to hate the idea of it too.. and I still don't understand why it's such a turn on to some guys.. but meh.. I do enjoy it now so I don't mind him pestering me about it!

i would not do it i know someone who did and for the next week she could not control her bowel movements.

i've tried it once (not with with .chris) & i really didn't like it very much... but like .zanny said she didn't like it at first, either. chris really wants to try it.. its a huge turn-on for him, too. i'm not to keen on it..

if you're going to try it, make sure you've gone poo before you do it, & make sure you use lube!!!!

lol this is nashtay.

Robs the same way.. and i refuse lol.

thats an exit not an entrance.

i tried it once and it wasn't bad but it didn't leave me wanting more.

i didn't even get a chance to get into it because the whole time i was worrying that when he pulled out there might be poop on him. ew, right? (there wasn't)

ewwwwwww thats what i would be thinking....hope there is not sh*t everywhere

we tried...
it doesn't fit like not even a tiny bit that would give if you kept trying.
it simply does not fit at all.
kinda like the square peg in a round hole problem... not that he has a square willy you understand lol

so we gave up the idea

rotflmfao!!

Square winkie...

*~*giggles like a school girl*~*

you said willy....

lol that is SO my worry too lol

ya i dont know i mean i'll do it for him i guess i'll try just use lube and see wat happens. i brought out the chocolate sauce the other night for the first time hehe that was fun!!!!

Something to think about - never insert anything from your 'bum' back into your vagina. You can get a serious infection.

I am aware a lot of you will say, "Duh" but there are some people who don't think that the 'willy' needs a washin before you use it again.

The same goes if you use sex toys. Always keep them clean to prevent infection and other icky things (like bladder infections!).

Use lube and go .S.L.O.W. If he is gentle, it will be ok.

Have fun!!

ok....ummm i like it for the most part.......lube lube lube is all i have to say and tell him that if he doesn't take it slow and if he doesn't listen to and isn't sensitive to you that u will take it off the table. it's something that you and ur husband need to take your time with and work your way into it. it's not something to do fast. you can always give yourself an enimina (sp) to kinda clean yourself out.


Advise your husband that slow is the key.

also keep in mind that going from the front to back is fine. but going from the back to front can open you up for infections and stuff. so also cleanness is good thing.

Good luck love.

also, it would probably help if he fingers you there first to kind of loosen you up a bit. maybe while he's going down on you or something.

this is turning kinky..

lol and a lil inappropriate.

But we shall see

Wow.

Umm, never tried it. He asks, I refuse. End of.

If he wants lovin, he can have a bunny. Or his hand. Or air. Mmhmm.

Yeah, lube lube and more lube. I know what worked for me was I was the one in control of how fast it went in. I backed myself up to it and put it in at my own speed. I told him if he pushed it in at all I would squeeze my butt cheeks and rip it off. LOL
It wasn't anything I'd beg for, but it wasn't that bad. You have to be relaxed and he needs to be gentle. If your tense, it hurts like a mother.

Good luck, I hope you enjoy it

lol, how is this inappropriate? just because it's gross doesn't mean it doesn't happen! nobody is being vulgar! :p

Sandy love, it's perfectly natural. I see nothing wrong with it.....but i don't see anything wrong with a lot of things. LOL Sex is sex in the bum or not.

I guess i want to be a sex therapist and so sex is a natural thing for me.....but also the same reason i didn't use anything sexual in my post.

hehehe it was the others that were getting graphic. ahahah

i have never tried this.. i dont know if its because i feel its gross or maybe its because i am scared... my man is the same as yalls.. he wants to do this to and always makes comments, but i have never allowed it..
i guess just call me prude with 6 children hahaha