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Penis to Women About Small Penises Posted: 03-08-07 12:47pm
Ok im pretty sure this topic has been
brought up here a lot of times, but im
going to ask this question anyways. Is
there anybody here who prefer men with
small penises? I am askign this because im
20 years old and ive yet to have any
sexual intercourse. I consider this a
curse, because it completely brings me
down in life. I really dont want to even
try to hook up with any gril i know or
that my friends know, im scared that the
girl would laugh at my penis and then go
and tell everybody, and then i would
probably kill myself, or possibly move
somewhere else. So maybe this is a totally
wrong place to ask this but are there any
women from around my area who wouldint
mind getting to know each other or
something of that sort. I mean im a pretty
normal guy, i have a good steady job, i go
to school, i mean the only thing bad about
me is my 5" penis, is there anybody who is
willing to look past that?
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 03-08-07 12:54pm
Well, perhaps the first thing to help is
to know you're average.
Yep, you don't have a small penis. It may
not be the penis size you want, but it's
average. 5-6" is the norm.
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fiona05
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Posted: 03-08-07 14:41pm
this place isnt a dating service!
but just to put your mind at ease, you are
still within the average range, and in
fact i do know people who prefer a smaller
penis. my best friend for one. she prefers
them small so they dont hurt her! as for
me, anything bigger than about 7" and i
think i would run a mile.
much too many men are fixated by size.
it's not what you have it's what you do
with it.
another close friend of mine used to only
go to bed with well endowed men. she was
imfamous for it! for years she was like
that until she went out with a guy with a
5 inch penis and in her own words "he
could do more with his 5 inches than
others could with 10!"
really anyone that laughs at you is just
shallow. and you're better off without
them.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-08-07 15:29pm
As the others said, you're not small.
You're average. The average adult penis
is about 5-6 inches, but there is a lot of
variation. Some people are quite a bit
smaller, some are quite a bit bigger.
That's just the way things are, and you'll
have to get used to that. We know you
didn't choose your penis size. It just
happens, so someone would have to be
awfully shallow to judge you on something
that you can't really change anyway. It
just isn't a big deal.
The female body is set up in such a way
that it does not matter much. We usually
have orgasms from clitoral stimulation as
opposed to vaginal stimulation anyway.
Also, most our nerve endings in the vagina
are only within the first couple of inches
of the opening. So a nine inch penis
isn't going to please the average woman
any more or give her an orgasm any easier.
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laura_friesen
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 610 Location: , Canada
Posted: 03-08-07 15:42pm
well i guess penis' are just like boobs to
girls. ha! But like everyone else said
you're average. and dont worry about it ,
iv been with a guy whose been bigger than
the other and to me atleast it's no
biggie. i know that they can't help how
big their dink is , so i work with wat i
have hehe. so no worries, any girl that
makes "fun" of u or whatever isn't worth
it anyways. good luck hun!
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greddy
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Posted: 03-08-07 19:05pm
wow i wish i knew somebody understanding
liek you girls, life would be better
i have another question though has any one
of you ever been with a guy whose not well
endowed? and if yes how was it? was it
good did you climax? did you wish his
thing was bigger? did you want to have sex
with him again
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-08-07 21:04pm
greddy
wrote:
wow i wish i knew somebody
understanding liek you girls, life would
be better
i have another question though has any one
of you ever been with a guy whose not well
endowed? and if yes how was it? was it
good did you climax? did you wish his
thing was bigger? did you want to have sex
with him
again
I think the smallest guy that I have been
with was about 5 inches. I am not great
with judging lengths, but that's my guess.
I am also not saying that five inches is
small of course. I am just saying that it
seems as though many of my partners have
been average or larger than average. I
did not choose them for that reason,
however.
I was pleased, and yes, I did have an
orgasm. Length honestly has nothing to do
with being able to orgasm. The clitoris
isn't even in the vagina, so most women
could orgasm just fine even with a two
inch penis. In fact, many women
masturbate just be rubbing instead of by
using any penetration. Also, many women
orgasm during oral sex as opposed during
vaginal sex. So, no, I did not wish that
he was bigger because it would not have
made any difference.
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fiona05
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Posted: 03-09-07 15:29pm
sure, have you never heard really big guys
complain that they cant get pleasure from
sex because they cant fully penetrate the
girl? i've heard this. and i've heard
girls complain about because if he's too
big then he cant get close enough for his
pelvis to stimulate her clitoris.
however, as an average sized guy, if you
do want to achieve deeper penetration you
can try doggy style, or missionary but
with the girl's legs folded up with her
knees up against her chest. from my
experience those positions seem to get me
deepest lol.
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-09-07 20:42pm
fiona05
wrote:
sure, have you never heard
really big guys complain that they cant
get pleasure from sex because they cant
fully penetrate the girl? i've heard this.
and i've heard girls complain about
because if he's too big then he cant get
close enough for his pelvis to stimulate
her clitoris.
however, as an average sized guy, if you
do want to achieve deeper penetration you
can try doggy style, or missionary but
with the girl's legs folded up with her
knees up against her chest. from my
experience those positions seem to get me
deepest lol.
I have heard that too! I had a friend
with a porn start penis, and he said he
never had good oral sex because no one can
fit his penis into their mouth very far.
A big penis can be difficult to handle
during oral sex. Anything even a little
larger than average actually really hurts
my jaw if it goes on for more than a
couple of minutes, and no, I am not even
trying to stuff the entire thing into my
mouth or anything like that.
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laura_friesen
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 610 Location: , Canada
Posted: 03-10-07 11:48am
Llewellyn
wrote:
fiona05
wrote:
sure, have you never heard
really big guys complain that they cant
get pleasure from sex because they cant
fully penetrate the girl? i've heard this.
and i've heard girls complain about
because if he's too big then he cant get
close enough for his pelvis to stimulate
her clitoris.
however, as an average sized guy, if you
do want to achieve deeper penetration you
can try doggy style, or missionary but
with the girl's legs folded up with her
knees up against her chest. from my
experience those positions seem to get me
deepest lol.
I have heard that too! I had a friend
with a porn start penis, and he said he
never had good oral sex because no one can
fit his penis into their mouth very far.
A big penis can be difficult to handle
during oral sex. Anything even a little
larger than average actually really hurts
my jaw if it goes on for more than a
couple of minutes, and no, I am not even
trying to stuff the entire thing into my
mouth or anything like
that.
i totally know what you mean! It kinda
sucks for oral sex when they're quite big,
then you cant go down all the way hehe
