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Q: Penis to Women About Small Penises

asked by: greddy on March 8th, 2007

New User

Ok im pretty sure this topic has been brought up here a lot of times, but im going to ask this question anyways. Is there anybody here who prefer men with small penises? I am askign this because im 20 years old and ive yet to have any sexual intercourse. I consider this a curse, because it completely brings me down in life. I really dont want to even try to hook up with any gril i know or that my friends know, im scared that the girl would laugh at my penis and then go and tell everybody, and then i would probably kill myself, or possibly move somewhere else. So maybe this is a totally wrong place to ask this but are there any women from around my area who wouldint mind getting to know each other or something of that sort. I mean im a pretty normal guy, i have a good steady job, i go to school, i mean the only thing bad about me is my 5" penis, is there anybody who is willing to look past that?

Replies(9)

HealthySex

replied on March 8th, 2007

Experienced User

Well, perhaps the first thing to help is to know you're average.

Yep, you don't have a small penis. It may not be the penis size you want, but it's average. 5-6" is the norm.

fiona05

replied on March 8th, 2007

Supporter

this place isnt a dating service!

but just to put your mind at ease, you are still within the average range, and in fact i do know people who prefer a smaller penis. my best friend for one. she prefers them small so they dont hurt her! as for me, anything bigger than about 7" and i think i would run a mile.

much too many men are fixated by size. it's not what you have it's what you do with it.

another close friend of mine used to only go to bed with well endowed men. she was imfamous for it! for years she was like that until she went out with a guy with a 5 inch penis and in her own words "he could do more with his 5 inches than others could with 10!"

really anyone that laughs at you is just shallow. and you're better off without them.

Llewellyn

replied on March 8th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

As the others said, you're not small. You're average. The average adult penis is about 5-6 inches, but there is a lot of variation. Some people are quite a bit smaller, some are quite a bit bigger. That's just the way things are, and you'll have to get used to that. We know you didn't choose your penis size. It just happens, so someone would have to be awfully shallow to judge you on something that you can't really change anyway. It just isn't a big deal.

The female body is set up in such a way that it does not matter much. We usually have orgasms from clitoral stimulation as opposed to vaginal stimulation anyway. Also, most our nerve endings in the vagina are only within the first couple of inches of the opening. So a nine inch penis isn't going to please the average woman any more or give her an orgasm any easier.

laura_friesen

replied on March 8th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

well i guess penis' are just like boobs to girls. ha! But like everyone else said you're average. and dont worry about it , iv been with a guy whose been bigger than the other and to me atleast it's no biggie. i know that they can't help how big their dink is , so i work with wat i have hehe. so no worries, any girl that makes "fun" of u or whatever isn't worth it anyways. good luck hun!

greddy

replied on March 8th, 2007

New User

wow i wish i knew somebody understanding liek you girls, life would be better
i have another question though has any one of you ever been with a guy whose not well endowed? and if yes how was it? was it good did you climax? did you wish his thing was bigger? did you want to have sex with him again

Llewellyn

replied on March 8th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

greddy wrote:

I think the smallest guy that I have been with was about 5 inches. I am not great with judging lengths, but that's my guess. I am also not saying that five inches is small of course. I am just saying that it seems as though many of my partners have been average or larger than average. I did not choose them for that reason, however.

I was pleased, and yes, I did have an orgasm. Length honestly has nothing to do with being able to orgasm. The clitoris isn't even in the vagina, so most women could orgasm just fine even with a two inch penis. In fact, many women masturbate just be rubbing instead of by using any penetration. Also, many women orgasm during oral sex as opposed during vaginal sex. So, no, I did not wish that he was bigger because it would not have made any difference.

fiona05

replied on March 9th, 2007

Supporter

sure, have you never heard really big guys complain that they cant get pleasure from sex because they cant fully penetrate the girl? i've heard this. and i've heard girls complain about because if he's too big then he cant get close enough for his pelvis to stimulate her clitoris.

however, as an average sized guy, if you do want to achieve deeper penetration you can try doggy style, or missionary but with the girl's legs folded up with her knees up against her chest. from my experience those positions seem to get me deepest lol.

Llewellyn

replied on March 9th, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

fiona05 wrote:

I have heard that too! I had a friend with a porn start penis, and he said he never had good oral sex because no one can fit his penis into their mouth very far. A big penis can be difficult to handle during oral sex. Anything even a little larger than average actually really hurts my jaw if it goes on for more than a couple of minutes, and no, I am not even trying to stuff the entire thing into my mouth or anything like that.

laura_friesen

replied on March 10th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

Llewellyn wrote:

fiona05 wrote:

i totally know what you mean! It kinda sucks for oral sex when they're quite big, then you cant go down all the way hehe Wink

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