Hey jessica,I use that (sperm donor one too!) My first child was a blessing,but the ''donor'' beat the h*ll out of me starting the week we moved in together,he continued until her birth,left while in labour and picked himself up a 16 yr old prostitute to pass most of the evening-he thought I NEEDED that information I suppose.He was a dirt bag,we were engaged,as i was paying for the ''wedding ''I found out he was almost 33,not the 24 he had claimed,never worked-quit his job the day after the 1st beating-never paid child support,how? government could find him,hope they drag the river one day,oh my lucky day! Any ''man''who looks real close to see if you are still alive and laughs when he says,''this is the night you die (B)'' or threatens to ''tie you up,kill her(infant) and make you watch before I kill you '' is no father,has NO rights,and deserves what he gets!!! MY husband of many years is amazing,he is all and everything for all our kids,my girl-is his girl,blood knows no bounds,he loves her like he brought her into this world,I amm so lucky to have found him,he really makes my world! Thank goodness I new when to get away from the 1st nutbar!